Hi everyone.
First, I've read the GC articles on hitting on taken women
Second: the case. I met her like 2 weeks ago as part of a group. She was with a guy, but I could clearly see that the interaction between them was totally tilted to him just chasing her. I didn't see them holding hands, kissing, etc. All I saw was the guy acting as her pet.. He wasn't confident, was pretty submissive, etc.
Me and her also spoke during the evening when the dude was and wasn't around. We were playful and I told her a few things she liked, such as that I understood she likes to have men chasing her and that she realizes she can do anything she want with a man. Sort of I told her that I see through her behavior (I didn't condemn it, as a matter of fact, I told I think it's very feminine ) And she clearly enjoyed my playful approach ( well, all girls like attention, right?)
The dude sh'es with seemed totally under her control. From secondary sources I know they see each other and spend time together, but my friends told me that my observations were right and that that dude is essentially chasing her all the time, but (important) apparently he also gets something out if it. I heard he sleeps at hers sometimes. So be it sex or just a kiss sometimes or whatever, he isn't just chasing her around with no result.
Anyways, I decided to take a stab at this. I added her on FB a week after we met and started a playful conversation about something we were talking about the night we met. We would exchange 2-3 messages a day for like 3 days. I was pretty direct about it and after a few texts I proposed to meet for a coffee. She said she MIGHT (no will) have time, I said "ok lets speak when we both have time then" and this was 2 days ago.
How would you guys go around this? Radio silence and let her make the next move? Or be more aggressive and direct and just ask her out "one last time" and call it a day?
See, she likes to have guys chasing. It's clear. So I don't want to become another satellite dude of her's by proposing endless coffees only to be played around by her. I want to f her. period. How to archive this in the best way? Passive and let her do the job by making her become intrigued "why this guy asks me out and then disappears? I'm not used to this" or just ask her out again and see what she says? I won't tell you what way I'm most inclined to, I'd like to hear some of your unbiased words of wisdom
Best!
First, I've read the GC articles on hitting on taken women
Second: the case. I met her like 2 weeks ago as part of a group. She was with a guy, but I could clearly see that the interaction between them was totally tilted to him just chasing her. I didn't see them holding hands, kissing, etc. All I saw was the guy acting as her pet.. He wasn't confident, was pretty submissive, etc.
Me and her also spoke during the evening when the dude was and wasn't around. We were playful and I told her a few things she liked, such as that I understood she likes to have men chasing her and that she realizes she can do anything she want with a man. Sort of I told her that I see through her behavior (I didn't condemn it, as a matter of fact, I told I think it's very feminine
) And she clearly enjoyed my playful approach ( well, all girls like attention, right?) The dude sh'es with seemed totally under her control. From secondary sources I know they see each other and spend time together, but my friends told me that my observations were right and that that dude is essentially chasing her all the time, but (important) apparently he also gets something out if it. I heard he sleeps at hers sometimes. So be it sex or just a kiss sometimes or whatever, he isn't just chasing her around with no result.
Anyways, I decided to take a stab at this. I added her on FB a week after we met and started a playful conversation about something we were talking about the night we met. We would exchange 2-3 messages a day for like 3 days. I was pretty direct about it and after a few texts I proposed to meet for a coffee. She said she MIGHT (no will) have time, I said "ok lets speak when we both have time then" and this was 2 days ago.
How would you guys go around this? Radio silence and let her make the next move? Or be more aggressive and direct and just ask her out "one last time" and call it a day?
See, she likes to have guys chasing. It's clear. So I don't want to become another satellite dude of her's by proposing endless coffees only to be played around by her. I want to f her. period. How to archive this in the best way? Passive and let her do the job by making her become intrigued "why this guy asks me out and then disappears? I'm not used to this" or just ask her out again and see what she says? I won't tell you what way I'm most inclined to, I'd like to hear some of your unbiased words of wisdom
Best!
