Hitting on the friend of a hookup friend?

[Jack123Frost]

Hey guys,

So in the past few weeks I have been sleeping with a Spanish girl. She's sexy, nice accent, hospitable, etc... But, she's going back to Spain in a few weeks when the term ends. She has a friend that is equally hot & single, and I would like to try and take advantage for when my Spanish friend leaves. Her friend and I are definitely not shy with each other...at one party she and I gave each other lap dances, because my Spanish friend and her wanted to see my "stripping skills". But anything extra I need to take into consideration when hitting on my friend's friend? Should I wait to make a move until after my Spanish friend leaves, or try to drop a few hints now?

Thank you,

-J

 

[Fuck This]

So basically you want to "keep her warm" for a few more weeks.

I think that you follow the same "contact rules" as a FB.

Don't call or see her more than once a week...
Be flirty around her, not friendy
Don't get sucked into platonic dates like coffee or brunch
No extensive texting. Return the texts warmly but don't spend hours with long exchanges. End the text string clearly and cleanly with something you gotta go do. "Hitting the gym. Catch you later"


Basically make her thirsty for your company and attention.
When the time comes to make a move (don't want to be too obvious -like an hour after Spaniard Girl gets on the plane) engage her with something you are doing.
Ideally she will become the initiator of contact...and drop hints...and invite you to HER place.

 

[Jack123Frost]

Cool, I'll let you know how things go.

 

[Jack123Frost]

So basically you want to "keep her warm" for a few more weeks.

I think that you follow the same "contact rules" as a FB.

Don't call or see her more than once a week...
Be flirty around her, not friendy
Don't get sucked into platonic dates like coffee or brunch
No extensive texting. Return the texts warmly but don't spend hours with long exchanges. End the text string clearly and cleanly with something you gotta go do. "Hitting the gym. Catch you later"


Basically make her thirsty for your company and attention.
When the time comes to make a move (don't want to be too obvious -like an hour after Spaniard Girl gets on the plane) engage her with something you are doing.
Ideally she will become the initiator of contact...and drop hints...and invite you to HER place.

Well, my Spanish friend left, and I haven't seen her friend since. A few days ago I decided to follow her on Instagram, but haven't heard anything. Any advice? Hit her up when I go to a party?

Also, she and the Spanish gal were actually really close friends...I'm not how many girls are usually down to be eskimo sisters...this is pretty new territory for me. At what point should I forget about it?