How come young girls are undersexed and lose interest in sex

[empath]

I can’t understand as a guy.

Few past dates I have been to and I have laid girls.

Those did not had sex for a 1 year or 1.5 year

how come what leads to this?

Most said they lost interest in it

one seemed horny and desperate maybe just joking … she was like I can have sex anytime but I need feelings …

what are they upto?

most say they don’t even masturbate

any insight will be useful and how to use this fact to improve seductions as well

like use the fact that its been a while you had sex…

Also, seems bar to seduction is so low sometime… you just need to isolate and touch

 

[Spike]

My guess is their validation tanks are full. Social media and offline. Sex is one avenue girls get validation from. The more validation they have, the less they need sex. Vice versa the less validation they have, the more open they are to sex to fill up that validation void

 

[Spike]

Or they’ve gone a long enough period that whatever source of validation they receive no longer stimulates them (bored) and they’re open to a new source of validation to fill the tank

 

[Bismarck]

I think it was Teevster who wrote somewhere that girls can get a pretty big validation shot from knowing that you want to have sex with them, knowing that they are sexually attractive and thus have survival/replication value. Enough to not need the sex afterwards.

This is one of the reasons why I generally prefer only to kiss when back at the sex location.

Instagram, as James D wrote in his most recent LR, is full of naked chicks. Chicks take those photos and have dozens, if not hundreds or even thousands of random dudes texting them that they want their vaginas.

 

[Skills]

My theory.-

- most men are not getting laid or skilled with women so less sex in general the girl is not gonna do all the work...

- gen z is more conservative ok with staying home watching Netflix... Movie theater was in my time a pick up place and hangout for teens and young adults...

- gen z has more access to porn, toys and sex is less taboo vs previous gen... So the i want what is forbidden gone.

- the decline in club culture

- the rise of mini social circles

- the rise of incels

- the lack of social activities opting more for digital...

- the 2 extreme of apps.. top guys fuck and dump traumatizing them... Normies don't get anywhere they do know what they are doing...

My theory... Is not good tbh... And getting worst...

 

[empath]

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My theory.-

- most men are not getting laid or skilled with women so less sex in general the girl is not gonna do all the work...

- gen z is more conservative ok with staying home watching Netflix... Movie theater was in my time a pick up place and hangout for teens and young adults...

- gen z has more access to porn, toys and sex is less taboo vs previous gen... So the i want what is forbidden gone.

- the decline in club culture

- the rise of mini social circles

- the rise of incels

- the lack of social activities opting more for digital...

- the 2 extreme of apps.. top guys fuck and dump traumatizing them... Normies don't get anywhere they do know what they are doing...

My theory... Is not good tbh... And getting worst...

What is rise of mini social circle

 

[Skills]

W

What is rise of mini social circle

More clicks and groups hanging together...

I forgot the depression and anxiety...

Most yough is depress, anxious on pilis in usa... Anti depressants and the likes...

And thh maybe the economy... People broke staying home..
In usa at least...

 

[POB]

I would add:
- more drugs;
- more alcohol;
- general social awkardness (less social activities in general mean less practice to act social with strangers);
- low tolerance for taking risks;
- no attention spam at all (they can forget about you in 5 minutes and its not even because of something you said or did);

 

[Skills]

I would add:
- more drugs;
- more alcohol;
- general social awkardness (less social activities in general mean less practice to act social with strangers);
- low tolerance for taking risks;
- no attention spam at all (they can forget about you in 5 minutes and its not even because of something you said or did);

Less drugs and alcohol in usa back of by stats...more healthy gen vs previous

 

[Spike]

Less drugs and alcohol in usa back of by stats...more healthy gen vs previous

Overwhelming majority of gen z girls in USA smoke weed and drink spiked seltzer drinks like high noon and surf side

But that has nothing to do why they are having less sex.

of course they watch Netflix when they aren’t in school or studying to pass the time but they still go out when the weekend comes. Even when they’re broke

And I’ve been with several girls that take pills for depression.

all the girls I been with watch porn too and that didn’t stop them from going home with me.

So for the single girls (not including the ones that go out already being in a relationship) that are looking for dick

1) They’re standards are ridiculously high. Since they can have anyone they want for sex. They are ok going months without having sex. Withholding for a specific guy.

2) If you are that specific guy. They will make it easy for you (game of course still needed) (I have a lot of these (girls that have not had sex in months) because I was their specific type).

 

[average_daygamer]

They want to have sex but only with young chads. As a near middle aged man, I don't stand a chance.

 

[Teevster]

Sexual Comfort + hold back on validating them (indirect game) + isolate = Sex.

 

[Will_V]

My theory.-

- most men are not getting laid or skilled with women so less sex in general the girl is not gonna do all the work...

- gen z is more conservative ok with staying home watching Netflix... Movie theater was in my time a pick up place and hangout for teens and young adults...

- gen z has more access to porn, toys and sex is less taboo vs previous gen... So the i want what is forbidden gone.

- the decline in club culture

- the rise of mini social circles

- the rise of incels

- the lack of social activities opting more for digital...

- the 2 extreme of apps.. top guys fuck and dump traumatizing them... Normies don't get anywhere they do know what they are doing...

My theory... Is not good tbh... And getting worst...

Good list. I would add a couple of things: sexual culture has lost a lot of its romance and jouissance, there are no taboos to break, stuff is transactional, sex is everywhere, so it appeals far less to girls' rebellious nature. It's almost more rebellious these days to withhold sex, you can see all these 'red pill' women these days peddling a pseudo conservative image on yt and garnering attention from millions of naive guys.

Another thing is that sexual polarity is muddled now, women are being encouraged to act like men, men are being encouraged to act like women, there is a lack of knowledge amongst younger women on how to handle the masculine, and the result is confusion, anxiety, and loss of libido. It's become normal for a girl to go around being openly afraid of everything masculine, when in other times she would have been looked down on by men and women alike as being weak and lacking female capability.

In my opinion the great problem with modern society is the sowing of confusion, it destroys self confidence, increases internal conflict, and creates a disorientation that makes it very difficult for men and women to find their way and develop to their full potential.

 

[Skills]

Overwhelming majority of gen z girls in USA smoke weed and drink spiked seltzer drinks like high noon and surf side

But that has nothing to do why they are having less sex.

of course they watch Netflix when they aren’t in school or studying to pass the time but they still go out when the weekend comes. Even when they’re broke

And I’ve been with several girls that take pills for depression.

all the girls I been with watch porn too and that didn’t stop them from going home with me.

So for the single girls (not including the ones that go out already being in a relationship) that are looking for dick

1) They’re standards are ridiculously high. Since they can have anyone they want for sex. They are ok going months without having sex. Withholding for a specific guy.

2) If you are that specific guy. They will make it easy for you (game of course still needed) (I have a lot of these (girls that have not had sex in months) because I was their specific type).

They drink less alcohol than previous gens.... Drugs if include weed then yes... And mention the pills... About the high standards is same shit TBH.... All women have high standards always been like that..

 

[Skills]

They want to have sex but only with young chads. As a near middle aged man, I don't stand a chance.

Has always been like that

 

[Skills]

Clarification drinking less than previous gens doesn't mean no drinking.. a drink at a club was 5 bucks now is 25 in usa

 

[Skills]

Sexual Comfort + hold back on validating them (indirect game) + isolate = Sex.

You missed earn group

 

[Spike]

They drink less alcohol than previous gens

I know that’s what the stats say. You’re just repeating yourself. But what my eyes tell me. Is that it hasn’t changed. The only ones that drink less are girls over 23 (several of the girls I work with that are over 23 hate alcohol. When they used to like it when they were younger).

Clarification drinking less than previous gens doesn't mean no drinking.. a drink at a club was 5 bucks now is 25 in usa

If you’re going to a club yes. Drinks at clubs have always been overpriced since as long as I’ve been a pua. Drinks at the bar I go to are $5.

 

[Skills]

I know that’s what the stats say. You’re just repeating yourself. But what my eyes tell me. Is that it hasn’t changed. The only ones that drink less are girls over 23 (several of the girls I work with that are over 23 hate alcohol. When they used to like it when they were younger).

If you’re going to a club yes. Drinks at clubs have always been overpriced since as long as I’ve been a pua. Drinks at the bar I go to are $5.

Jesus how many times i have to tell you must dudes are not in a college town in the middle of nowhere... Did you read how topcat spent 80 Bucks on 2 drinks.. for me drinks are 0... can't care less..

 

[Spike]

Did you read how topcat spent 80 Bucks on 2 drinks.

Yes. He took the girl to a luxury hotel. Where drinks are going to be extremely overpriced. Unlike a dive bar. Common sense