I meet girls in cafes, malls and streets. There is no pre-selection, no social-proof, I'm average looking, I can't display my social circle to her, I can't display my DHV in a short time I have of 2-5 mins I get to talk to her. Just going out and putting myself in the open has reduced my approach anxiety but after that it's not progressing any further. They don't respond to texts or go on instant dates. Do you have a structure that you can suggest that I can adopt?
How do I attract a girl who I meet cold approaching?
- Thread starter Deeppua
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It is simply you selling yourself. There is no shortcut to conversational ability. Remember what girls are attracted to is how you make them feel. So talk about what makes them feel good. It is your job in the conversation to determine that in about 3 sentences....and let her carry the conversational load...
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Deeppua-
I created a Tactics & Tuesdays post with a checklist to use on approach to help with the attraction issues you're running into.
Here it is -- I hope it helps:
8-Item Checklist for the First 1 Minute of Conversation
Chase
I created a Tactics & Tuesdays post with a checklist to use on approach to help with the attraction issues you're running into.
Here it is -- I hope it helps:
8-Item Checklist for the First 1 Minute of Conversation
Chase