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How Do I Stop Being Nice?

Ken

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A few months ago, I sent a DM to the whatshereallymeant Instagram account. I sent a screenshot of the texts that I sent a girl and that I received from her. After Hector sent me some advice for what to do next, I told him that every girl I ever cold approached is polite with me. It was a pattern I realized after I saw the advice that he sent me. He said that I needed edge. He said something along the lines of, girls are interested and polite with you, but you don't have edge.

So: How do I stop being nice?
 
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trashKENNUT

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Ken,

Ken said:
So: How do I stop being nice?

One of the first few ways is to take your time to answer people. Bring some tension to conversations with people you don't like. Also, there will be people who will not like you.

Bring your eyes slowly and slowly turn your head when they say something stupid or when you both know you guys don't like each other.

There comes a point in time in your life where you learn that even if you are a cool guy, there are just people who are just not gonna like you, and there's where you start amplifying it.

Start out by being "rude" to your "lesser" friends. :) You need to recognize you being an asshole in all the wrong place to know that you have started, and then hear it too often to know you have scale too much.

As an example, in my life, and i am touting my own horn, BEEP BEEP.

Most people know that Zac is happy, and he is a happy guy, and he doesn't bother people. But they also know that Zac can switch it up and be a complete asshole, and fight with you and make your life miserable, like literally make every sentence, every act with him is frame battles, which is what we humans really are.

But that's a necessary skill. That' takes time to build. And you do relapse. :)

Build this in your life first, and then you learn how to be an "ass" with girls. or tell me that i am reading u wrong and you are a legitimate asshole. HAHA! Just that with girls, it is not working.

Zac
 

Sandman

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Be sexual, that's all the edge you need. I'm told that I'm edgy by lots of girls and the only edge I have is my sexuality. I'm not a buff guy, not a martial artist (though I did do kick boxing for about 6 years), I'm not an artist etc. But I am confident and sexual.

Touch girls, give her some some sex talk, use sexual chase frames etc. Also don't be afraid to bust girls balls (calibrate to the girl of course) and let your displeasure be known if the girl is acting in.a way that is harmful to the seduction. Some examples; you sit somewhere and she sits far away, laugh and day don't be weird come here, the girl is talking about a topic which is not good for seduction such as politics have a bored face or even yawn if necessary, girl said something insulting say that's not cool, don't do that. Basically don't put pussy on a pedestal :)
 

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