How do I stop talking about myself

M_Ronin

Space Monkey
space monkey
Joined
Aug 3, 2019
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I have this problem most certainly. As most of you guys here are also on self development, I'm sure you can relate.

I've had a rough early life. And admittedly, I was rather weak and over sensitive. So through self development I've really built myself and interesting life. I am also highly highly introspective. This however comes with the downside of me and usually other people being overly interested in me since I became a legit interesting man. So, it just feels like the path of least resistance to talk about myself, my ideas, my experiences... Me me me.

I don't want to do this. It really hinders my progress at dates i believe. It kills the intrigue as well. So, I would like to invite everyone into a discussion about this. How do you think one doesn't feel the urge to do this in the first place? I am sure many beginner guys here have the same problem.
 

JacobPalmer

Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Jun 24, 2019
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Nothing wrong with talking about yourself, just try to ensure that you always throw it back in her direction. It can't just all be you or all be her. Remember - part of the reason you're on the date is to see whether or not she is a good fit for YOU, so you should want to know about her in order to make that decision.
 
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