How do most guys meet women as they get older?

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

I feel like cold approaching is kind of a niche/PUA sort of thing that very few guys out there can pull off to the point of being smooth with it.

Work has its setbacks for meeting women since they say "don't shit where you eat".

How do most guys who make it out of their school years single meet women?

 

[Franco]

Proactivity,

How do most guys who make it out of their school years single meet women?

Social, work, and event circles.

Only using these types of circles severely limits your pool of women, which is the main problem with it. But if you have good fundamentals (and you have had some experience dating women and sleeping with women in the past), you can usually net one of the higher quality women in these circles. The difference here is that the goal for men at this point is usually "get the higher quality(ish) one from the circle, knock her up, and settle down."

So if your goal is to bang lots of attractive women over a longer period of time, you're probably going to want to learn cold approach. The only other alternative is to be good at constantly shifting between new and old circles and expanding your social circle endlessly, which of course brings with it new potential lovers. But it's still a tedious process (at least from the eyes of an experienced cold approacher), and you'll have to be very comfortable with meeting new people and making friends easily.

- Franco

 

[Fuck This]

Proactivity,

How do most guys who make it out of their school years single meet women?

Social, work, and event circles.

Only using these types of circles severely limits your pool of women, which is the main problem with it. But if you have good fundamentals (and you have had some experience dating women and sleeping with women in the past), you can usually net one of the higher quality women in these circles. The difference here is that the goal for men at this point is usually "get the higher quality(ish) one from the circle, knock her up, and settle down."

So if your goal is to bang lots of attractive women over a longer period of time, you're probably going to want to learn cold approach. The only other alternative is to be good at constantly shifting between new and old circles and expanding your social circle endlessly, which of course brings with it new potential lovers. But it's still a tedious process (at least from the eyes of an experienced cold approacher), and you'll have to be very comfortable with meeting new people and making friends easily.

- Franco

+1000 to the bolded part above.
It really comes down to stop caring about if people like you. The ones who you want to be with will and the ones you don't want will go away or be unpleasant enough that you don't waste your time. Now you still need to be likeable, and noticeable, and intriguing, and unique. That just comes with improving yourself as a man. But being able to introduce yourself to a stranger, male or female and have a brief conversation is paramount to any social success in life.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Proactivity,

How do most guys who make it out of their school years single meet women?

Social, work, and event circles.

Only using these types of circles severely limits your pool of women, which is the main problem with it. But if you have good fundamentals (and you have had some experience dating women and sleeping with women in the past), you can usually net one of the higher quality women in these circles. The difference here is that the goal for men at this point is usually "get the higher quality(ish) one from the circle, knock her up, and settle down."

So if your goal is to bang lots of attractive women over a longer period of time, you're probably going to want to learn cold approach. The only other alternative is to be good at constantly shifting between new and old circles and expanding your social circle endlessly, which of course brings with it new potential lovers. But it's still a tedious process (at least from the eyes of an experienced cold approacher), and you'll have to be very comfortable with meeting new people and making friends easily.

- Franco

Looks like no matter what way we look at it, college was the last chance to get laid a lot without having to rely on cold approaches and online dating.

I cannot imagine sleeping with women from work giving how much it can come back to bite you.

As for event circles I have no idea how that would even work.

 

[Fuck This]

What physical activities do you like to do?

What volunteer or community activities do you participate in?

Are you involved in Industry associations? Conferences? seminars?, classes?




You already do things with other people you have things in common with. Learn to become acquainted with them not even TRYING to do Pick up. Broaden your social circle. Use Social media to keep in touch. Introduce other people to each other and they will return the favor. You can't have a relationship until you learn to socialize.

 

[slazenger]

Tinder has been very good to me. Also living in Latin America. Things are always easier when you're the exotic foreigner (who speaks their language) instead of one more Joe Blow in Tucson.

 

[lostnumber]

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