It’s a funny question and as with anything lifestyle-related, there’s no right answer.
But has anybody dealt with this? Having to reorient the way you present yourself as you get older and more successful?
I was always the devil may care, rough around the edges guy when I was younger who never held a job for more than a month and crashed with whatever girl I was sleeping with that night since I didn’t have a place of my own.
But this is not a good look in your mid-30s.
I bought some real estate and started a business and went “all work, no play” while I was in relationships for a couple years.
now all of a sudden, I’m single and have a bunch of money.
Can’t go back to that dirtbag life, really. It’s not who I am anymore.
but also, now I see girls pursuing me, and I can tell that they just want to nail down a guy with money, and don’t act the way I know a girl is supposed to act when she’s truly attracted to you (thank G-O-D for this community for teaching me this before I needed to know it.)
So it’s a vague question.
but has anyone here gone from rags to riches and had to change your vibe, the way you dress, the role you play with women?
if this sounds familiar at all, I would love to hear your thoughts.
But has anybody dealt with this? Having to reorient the way you present yourself as you get older and more successful?
I was always the devil may care, rough around the edges guy when I was younger who never held a job for more than a month and crashed with whatever girl I was sleeping with that night since I didn’t have a place of my own.
But this is not a good look in your mid-30s.
I bought some real estate and started a business and went “all work, no play” while I was in relationships for a couple years.
now all of a sudden, I’m single and have a bunch of money.
Can’t go back to that dirtbag life, really. It’s not who I am anymore.
but also, now I see girls pursuing me, and I can tell that they just want to nail down a guy with money, and don’t act the way I know a girl is supposed to act when she’s truly attracted to you (thank G-O-D for this community for teaching me this before I needed to know it.)
So it’s a vague question.
but has anyone here gone from rags to riches and had to change your vibe, the way you dress, the role you play with women?
if this sounds familiar at all, I would love to hear your thoughts.