How do you feel when Women approach YOU?

[Fuck This]

Now if we follow GC principles, there will be times when women actually approach us first. I've noticed it more lately as my mindset has been more open, outgoing and confident. It was really apparent one time walking through the airport with my girl when a stewardess coming off a flight made eye contact with me and then looked me up and down, head to toe. My girl saw it and mentioned it "That girl just totally checked you out!" while I acted completely unawares. (Yeah I saw it....)

Another time I struck up a conversation while waiting for a flight with a woman. She complimented my battered hat, and we bantered before we boarded the plane. Later, during the flight she came up to ask what I was doing once we touched down in Albuquerque, I told her that I was going to spend the next 4 days on a trip with a woman who was picking me up at the airport. She gave me her number and went back to her seat.

Yeah, a lot of these women who approached me were not up to my standards. But it really reinforced that my posture and dress and conversation are on point, and have only gotten better as I felt good about my options.

My question is: Has this ever become a problem for any of you advanced guys? Women in your social circle who become bitter that you didn't approach them,and raise the bitch shield, jealous behavior from girlfriends, even harassment from women?

 

[NealIRC]

For the title how do you feel when women approach you???

I feel absolutely awesome, it boosts my ego, my self-esteem.

However.

Now if we follow GC principles, there will be times when women actually approach us first. I've noticed it more lately as my mindset has been more open, outgoing and confident. It was really apparent one time walking through the airport with my girl when a stewardess coming off a flight made eye contact with me and then looked me up and down, head to toe. My girl saw it and mentioned it "That girl just totally checked you out!" while I acted completely unawares. (Yeah I saw it....)

This is not an approach. Women checking you out when you're with your girl? Yea that's common.

But even if you were by yourself and women checked you out that's hardly an approach. It may be an approach invitation, but it itself is not an approach.

Another time I struck up a conversation while waiting for a flight with a woman.

If you meant you started the convo, then that's not an approach either.

She complimented my battered hat, and we bantered before we boarded the plane. Later, during the flight she came up to ask what I was doing once we touched down in Albuquerque, I told her that I was going to spend the next 4 days on a trip with a woman who was picking me up at the airport. She gave me her number and went back to her seat.

Though the fact that she gave you her # without you asking is certainly an ego boost too.

Yeah, a lot of these women who approached me

But none of the examples you listed were women actually approaching you.

 

[Regal Tiger]

My question is: Has this ever become a problem for any of you advanced guys? Women in your social circle who become bitter that you didn't approach them,and raise the bitch shield, jealous behavior from girlfriends, even harassment from women?

Answering this question: it's a pain in the ass. Hell, just last night was my once a year going out to the bars time. It was 1 married couple (male+female) plus myself and 2 of my male cousins with one of my cousins' female friends (2f + 3m). We wound up at a bar where the ratio was very, very favorable to us guys.

The women immediately started bitching and whining because they weren't getting the attention that they wanted. They also started talking about how this bar was full of 12 year olds (which they doubled down on when we mentioned that they were ID checked just like the other places). Women... lol

And eventually the married guy decided to head out with his wife to the next bar, and my two cousins wanted to keep the group together. Only to get to the next bar and the extra female friend get even more pissy and leave. I thought it was all fascinating and was probably way too in my head observing lol.

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To answer the title; I'm usually just kinda meh when women approach me.

In daygame, or even online, I'm always going to be the approacher (well, almost always). When I get approached I'm usually in bars because I don't like the atmosphere, and logistics are absolutely bum fucked 8 ways to Sunday (I'm the DD of a small group at best, bigger group at worse). Which means that the likelihood of me sticking my penis in anything favorable that night is juuuuuuuuuuuust about zero.

Therefore I kinda naturally slip into more of a brooder state that Chase talks about in one of his articles. I get approached 1-2 times on average. Sometimes they're hot, sometimes they're not. Neither time last night was someone I would have proactively went for, though if they made it easy enough for me I wouldn't say no. One of them pinched my butt to get my attention which was cute. When she didn't immediately get my attention she full on grabbed it. A solid 6, I'd say, though I didn't get a good look at her (everyone else thought she looked nice so maybe I should have reconsidered? I dunno). Anyways, the moral of last night's story is to get a leather jacket

So with that backstory, when women approach me, it's usually because I'm not at all in the mood. Never been a fan of the bar scene and it drains me and actually makes me tired. But it's still an ego boost and feels good, even when the women aren't super hot. Especially when you're just waiting on the people around you to get tired and wanna go home it becomes a nice way to have some 1-on-1 interaction to pass the time. Though at that point they have to make it really, really easy for me to even attempt to go for it. Or they have to have the kind of personality that's going to turn me on since sex becomes the furthest thing from my mind in the moment.

 

[trashKENNUT]

FT,

My question is: Has this ever become a problem for any of you advanced guys? Women in your social circle who become bitter that you didn't approach them,and raise the bitch shield, jealous behavior from girlfriends, even harassment from women?

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Zac

 

[ResentMasculinity]

definetley a self-esteem and pride boost, yet a lot of people argue that guys feel emasculated or turned off by it

 

[Michal]

Responsible and usually disappointed - all the girls that ever approached me were very plain-looking, there was often only 1 thing I found attractive about them which was not enough to sway me to like their overall look. One seemed interesting and was investing a lot on her own but with all of them I was just thinking how to let them down respectfully and in a way that would not nuke their motivations to approach guys in the future. So I had a friendly chat and then used their tactics which was often me saying that I have a girlfriend of X years and that we are happy and how I appreciate she had the courage to approach me. The difference in attractiveness of girls that I go out with is enormous if I compare it based whether it was me approaching or her.