Curious, do you guys ignore most of these and text only when you want to meet?
I’m feeling obligated to text back more than I want to be.
So, in my experience if the girl is locked in meaning you fucked her at least 3x and you always make her cum a lot so she is addicted to your dick, then you can text pretty sparsely. Just make sure that your texts are really good, respond with warmth towards what she sent, and retort with a soft close, "got my hands on this vintage wine, we should enjoy a glass in my romantic balcony" etc. Whenever you want to meet.
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Good advice. Girl in question went cold/silent then happily agreed to meet saying 'it's been so long' and is now locked in
So like POB says you can start cutting it back which is what I do also. But as you can see if your texting is off she will go silent on you sometimes which can be for multiple reasons. But the most important thing is that even with some sporadic great texting that spikes her emotions she wont go cold or ghost you. Which makes seeing them again a lot easier, not to mention she's more invested in you, way more likely to stay loyal to you even if they know you are fucking other women, buy things for you, etc. This matters if you care about the girl and she is high value.
But even if she is just a fwb or fb to you, you still want to be spiking her emotions often during texting until you've had sex 3x aka she is locked in.
