Hi all!
How to talk to girls that transmit by their body language that they aren't interested to be approached? I am not referring to girls that tell you they have a boyfriend or just blow you off. I am talking about closed body language, not looking at ANYONE, not just at you, etc.
Example:
There is this smoking hot girl in my gym. Damn she is so attractive.. But she arrives, doesn't look at anyone, gets her little carpet, goes to the same corner all the time, does her workout and disappears. Always staring at her phone, always with headphones. We crossed a few times, she didn't even glance at me. So no signs of being interested in an approach what so ever. Not to mention you are in a gym and girls have that extra layer of defense of "not being approached by gym guys"
Another example: (Slightly frustrating experience) : I was in the mall having lunch. This super cute girl was sitting alone some 30m from me. Again, always staring at her phone, NOT LOOKING AROUND, she didn't look at anyone one single time in like 10 minutes (I was looking at her constantly, creep xD) and she was having lunch too. (another reason why an approach might be bad, she is eating, so leave her alone, right?) Although, when I looked at her again I caught her looking my way and she immediately looked back to her phone. And she didn't look at me again. So to me it wasn't really a green light. When she was done eating she stood up and.. we exchanged a stare and when she broke the eye contact she kinda touched her hair as she was grooming herself or was being nervous and a slight smile appeared on her face, but she wasn't looking at me anymore, anyway I saw something there, but she was leaving and it was over.
So these two different scenarios show that even if she isn't showing signs of openness to approach, she still might be interested (case two). I lost a potential date because I got intimidated by her unapproachable looks. Imagine that the gym girl is in the same position and all it requires is some really smooth trick? Is there any way to pre-open this sort of girls? How do you break in when she seems to be signaling people not to approach her? It seems that approaching when you are specifically told not to is not the best option.
The second girl got busted looking at me, but I didn't see it a approach clearance, however, can it be that some girls will only give you a SLIGHT subtle cue and not necessarily a 5 seconds stare with a smile?
Or you just don't give a fuck and say hi anyway, do you charming thing and if she likes you then she does? And there aren't really any tricks?
Best!
How to talk to girls that transmit by their body language that they aren't interested to be approached? I am not referring to girls that tell you they have a boyfriend or just blow you off. I am talking about closed body language, not looking at ANYONE, not just at you, etc.
Example:
There is this smoking hot girl in my gym. Damn she is so attractive.. But she arrives, doesn't look at anyone, gets her little carpet, goes to the same corner all the time, does her workout and disappears. Always staring at her phone, always with headphones. We crossed a few times, she didn't even glance at me. So no signs of being interested in an approach what so ever. Not to mention you are in a gym and girls have that extra layer of defense of "not being approached by gym guys"
Another example: (Slightly frustrating experience) : I was in the mall having lunch. This super cute girl was sitting alone some 30m from me. Again, always staring at her phone, NOT LOOKING AROUND, she didn't look at anyone one single time in like 10 minutes (I was looking at her constantly, creep xD) and she was having lunch too. (another reason why an approach might be bad, she is eating, so leave her alone, right?) Although, when I looked at her again I caught her looking my way and she immediately looked back to her phone. And she didn't look at me again. So to me it wasn't really a green light. When she was done eating she stood up and.. we exchanged a stare and when she broke the eye contact she kinda touched her hair as she was grooming herself or was being nervous and a slight smile appeared on her face, but she wasn't looking at me anymore, anyway I saw something there, but she was leaving and it was over.
So these two different scenarios show that even if she isn't showing signs of openness to approach, she still might be interested (case two). I lost a potential date because I got intimidated by her unapproachable looks. Imagine that the gym girl is in the same position and all it requires is some really smooth trick? Is there any way to pre-open this sort of girls? How do you break in when she seems to be signaling people not to approach her? It seems that approaching when you are specifically told not to is not the best option.
The second girl got busted looking at me, but I didn't see it a approach clearance, however, can it be that some girls will only give you a SLIGHT subtle cue and not necessarily a 5 seconds stare with a smile?
Or you just don't give a fuck and say hi anyway, do you charming thing and if she likes you then she does? And there aren't really any tricks?
Best!
