So, here is the thing. I meet a girl and flirt, chitchat and everything is goes good, lots of IOIs, attraction etc until she asks me where I'm from? I don't have an accent and I don't look like from my native country (India) and I don't do anything that makes her guess my country until I tell her. Once I say it, everything changes and she just gets repelled. Just for the sake of testing, I've lied a few times saying I'm from Fiji, Egypt or some random country and the girl has no problem and sometimes I even try to brush it off saying I'm from Mars or heaven jokingly but some girls keep insisting until I tell them. Also, I don't like to lie about my nationality cos I can't maintain it for long and eventually it'll come out. So, what's the best thing to say/do?
How to avoid telling my nationality to a girl so that she doesn't get repelled?
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Re: How to avoid telling my nationality to a girl so that she doesn't get repell
Tell her what neighborhood you live in.
But you must be giving off a foreign vibe for women to press you like that at first meeting. Are you meeting women in Pakistan ? Singapore?
There are a number of stereo types of SE Asians including Indians. Understand what they are and see if those are what is obstructing women.
Tell her what neighborhood you live in.
But you must be giving off a foreign vibe for women to press you like that at first meeting. Are you meeting women in Pakistan ? Singapore?
There are a number of stereo types of SE Asians including Indians. Understand what they are and see if those are what is obstructing women.
Re: How to avoid telling my nationality to a girl so that she doesn't get repell
I live in New Zealand and I'm aware of the stereotypes about my country men and unfortunately they don't have a good reputation which affects everyone.
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I live in New Zealand and I'm aware of the stereotypes about my country men and unfortunately they don't have a good reputation which affects everyone.
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Re: How to avoid telling my nationality to a girl so that she doesn't get repell
i would just be like i'm from x regioin of india. that's why i don't look indian, i'm not like all the rest. then laugh. then change the subject.
another thing would be using a pattern interupt before making a joke. a pattern interupt is something intense used to break her away from reality. So if she says "where are you from." Be like "OH SHIT!" This will jolt her. Then be like nevermind just thought of something I have to do tomorrow, anyway i'm from outter space. Then change the subject fast.
Anytime you want to avoid a topic you distract then change the topic fast. women have low attention spans, more so in places like night clubs and bars.
if it's during the day time you should probably lie. unless she's heavily distracted by how much she likes you changing the topic isn't gonna work very well. and if she likes you that much she's not gonna ask where your from.
there's a concept of low balling. that is when you sell yourself on lies basically. but by the time you've hung out three times she has all these other reasons for liking you. so then when you tell her you lied she's too invested to really care. you can get away with a lot in a honeymoon phase. but you gotta get to the honeymoon phase. so you should lie.
i would just be like i'm from x regioin of india. that's why i don't look indian, i'm not like all the rest. then laugh. then change the subject.
another thing would be using a pattern interupt before making a joke. a pattern interupt is something intense used to break her away from reality. So if she says "where are you from." Be like "OH SHIT!" This will jolt her. Then be like nevermind just thought of something I have to do tomorrow, anyway i'm from outter space. Then change the subject fast.
Anytime you want to avoid a topic you distract then change the topic fast. women have low attention spans, more so in places like night clubs and bars.
if it's during the day time you should probably lie. unless she's heavily distracted by how much she likes you changing the topic isn't gonna work very well. and if she likes you that much she's not gonna ask where your from.
there's a concept of low balling. that is when you sell yourself on lies basically. but by the time you've hung out three times she has all these other reasons for liking you. so then when you tell her you lied she's too invested to really care. you can get away with a lot in a honeymoon phase. but you gotta get to the honeymoon phase. so you should lie.
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Re: How to avoid telling my nationality to a girl so that she doesn't get repell
If I had a dollar for every time some Indian dude whined about race stopping him from getting girls....
Honestly man, the problem is you, I am Indian and we're doing just fine over here and I tell girls that shit. The problem is you and your deep-seated insecurity about your background. You want all of us to come on here, feel sorry for you, maybe give you some sympathy, and talk ad-nauseam about how tough things are out there for Indian men so you can whine about race and play victim. Not going to happen on this forum, take it elsewhere. If you wanted to, you could lie your ass off and tell girls you are from elsewhere or tell them you are a local and that is all that matters.
I tell girls I am Indian all the time, no issue. Most girls don't think like internet trolls or some crazy ethno-centrist. They want hot guys and they want fun guys, plain and simple.
Maybe New Zealand is a fucking dump, heard horrible things about the women there, but things are just fine for Indian dudes in the US.
If I had a dollar for every time some Indian dude whined about race stopping him from getting girls....
Honestly man, the problem is you, I am Indian and we're doing just fine over here and I tell girls that shit. The problem is you and your deep-seated insecurity about your background. You want all of us to come on here, feel sorry for you, maybe give you some sympathy, and talk ad-nauseam about how tough things are out there for Indian men so you can whine about race and play victim. Not going to happen on this forum, take it elsewhere. If you wanted to, you could lie your ass off and tell girls you are from elsewhere or tell them you are a local and that is all that matters.
I tell girls I am Indian all the time, no issue. Most girls don't think like internet trolls or some crazy ethno-centrist. They want hot guys and they want fun guys, plain and simple.
Maybe New Zealand is a fucking dump, heard horrible things about the women there, but things are just fine for Indian dudes in the US.