Socializing How to avoid the pitfalls of the old "I need money" conundrum

[POB]

@Francis don't think we are talking about the same thing here.

What I said in the OP:
- casual girls ask for money out of the blue, I don't give it, but don't say no so I don't create negative compliance...instead I difuse / help her figure it out;

What you said:
- here's how I helped my girl create a healthy budget;

I would NEVER do that for FBs, unless they kindly asked me to.
Even so it would be very marginal help.

 

[Francis]

@Francis don't think we are talking about the same thing here.

What I said in the OP:
- causal girls ask for money out of the blue, I don't give it, but don't say no so I don't create negative compliance...instead I difuse / help her figure it out;

What you said:
- here's how I helped my girl create a healthy budget;

I would NEVER do that for FBs, unless they kindly asked me to.
Even so it would be very marginal help.

Oh ok, I read it as a catch all strategy for any girl. I did not clue into that because if a FB asked me for money, I would lose all interest in ever seeing her again.

 

[POB]

Oh ok, I read it as a catch all strategy for any girl. I did not clue into that because if a FB asked me for money, I would lose all interest in ever seeing her again.

You need to treat that ADHD asap man.
Hope you already been diagnosed by a doctor.
(not trolling, you clearly have it)

 

[Francis]

are you guys dating for real, or is she just an FB?

Your post addressed this context but did not specify further. I see Skills called it like a shit test but I did not review the whole thread again from 1.5 years ago. I was simply providing an update to my strategy that several users originally liked.

I think it is better organization to have related replies in longer threads rather than have more threads. Clearly most of you disagree, but that does not matter anymore.

I have participated in the control group of research studies and have been thoroughly assessed by many types of doctors, spanning from early life to fairly recently. I do not have any type of diagnosis.

 

[POB]

Your post addressed this context but did not specify further. I see Skills called it like a shit test but I did not review the whole thread again from 1.5 years ago. I was simply providing an update to my strategy that several users originally liked.

Then why not make a new post about it?
Or update your own OP?
You clearly have thought about it, and came up with a very good strategy (for instance, I would def like to know more).
It deserves it's own post.

I think it is better organization to have related replies in longer threads rather than have more threads. Clearly most of you disagree, but that does not matter anymore.

That's where you are wrong...It does matter!
When you create something interesting, but shoehorns it on someone else's post, it looses it's value.
Especially when it is just marginally relevant to whats being discussed.

I have participated in the control group of research studies and have been thoroughly assessed by many types of doctors, spanning from early life to fairly recently. I do not have any type of diagnosis.

I would go to a neuro and a endocrinologist to do a basic chemical/mineral panel of body and brain.
Never hurts to know if we are unbalanced.