How To Be More Attractive To Women?

[Ken]

I have never been noticed by women. Not in high school, and especially not in college. Well, some of the women I'd cold approached in the past seemed attracted to me. And last year, my real life mentor asked a girl directly if she found me attractive. She gave me one look and said yes.

But it seems that they are not attracted to me to the point where they go on dates with me or have sex with me. To them, I am probably just another guy on campus.

The question is: How do I make myself more attractive to women on campus? How do I make them notice me more?

 

[Seppuku]

Hey Ken,

You need to re-read what Chase wrote about fundamentals. There are lots of little tweaks you can do to make yourself more attractive. The way you walk, the way you hold your back and your shoulders, the way you dress, the way you groom yourself, your voice, your smile, etc...

Girls do that all the time. Take a second look at all these "hot girls". Only a few of them are real beauties. For many of them, if you remove all clothes and all make up, what's left in the end is not necessarily as appetizing. These girls managed to make the most of themselves. Put on sexy clothes. Have heels that will highlight their calves and ass. Have wonderbras that will make you believe she has huge boobs. Make up, make up and more make up. Sexy hairstyle. Voice. Etc...

Chase's advocated work on "fundamentals" is nothing different.

Even if you worked on your fundamentals already, there are always more things you can do to improve them.

But now the question I want to ask you is: How do you know girls don't notice you? Because if they do notice you, they won't walk up to you to tell you - their signs are usually much more subtle. The only way you would know is after you established a connection with them.

Think about it.

Cheers,
Seppuku

 

[Ken]

Seppuku,

I am not good at noticing girl's subtle signs that they are attracted to me, probably because of my Autism. Also, I have a hard time establishing a connection with them, especially in 2017.

Ken

 

[Seppuku]

Okay.

So maybe they are noticing you and you're not aware of it. It's all fine. If you have a girl out with you, you absolutely need to assume attraction. Remember, she's here with you because she's hoping you will break all her barriers and fuck her. That's the right mindset to have. Winner mentality creates a virtuous circle.

In the meantime you may want to do more work on your fundamentals. It's called fundamentals for a reason. They are the pillars of attraction, on which you build everything else.

Improve how you dress. Learn to walk with straight posture, chest up, looking straight in front of you (not down). Relearn how to walk. Have a louder voice. Learn to put on a sexy tone in your voice when needed. Learn eye contact. Etc... Even if you already did all these, there's always more you can do to further improve.

Good luck!
Seppuku

 

[Ken]

Thank you for the advice, Seppuku.