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It's a simple enough question.
I was introducing my girlfriend of 7 months to Dungeons and Dragons where I DM and she wanted her character to have something more powerful so she started seducing me and initiate sex, expressing directly "If I do XYZ, can I have that?"
I was caught off guard. It's not like I've ever had issues having sex with her and it's not that I ever had problems since but that was obviously a test and all I could do was playfully say no all the time while counter escalating.
Is there a better frame to hold in those situations than "No, i don't think i will, but i will enjoy what you’re offering regardless"?
If she had denied continuing afterwards, how should I act?
I was introducing my girlfriend of 7 months to Dungeons and Dragons where I DM and she wanted her character to have something more powerful so she started seducing me and initiate sex, expressing directly "If I do XYZ, can I have that?"
I was caught off guard. It's not like I've ever had issues having sex with her and it's not that I ever had problems since but that was obviously a test and all I could do was playfully say no all the time while counter escalating.
Is there a better frame to hold in those situations than "No, i don't think i will, but i will enjoy what you’re offering regardless"?
If she had denied continuing afterwards, how should I act?