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How to Find Quality People

NewBeeWinner

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Hey guys,

I've been thinking a lot on getting my environment to work for me instead of against me. That brought me to my question: how do you find quality people to bring into your life?

I know what I want from life and I know I'm a go-getter, self-motivated, and have big hopes and dreams for myself. I have desires with women, in my future job, in growing socially, in traveling, and in finance, cooking, and other skill areas. But there is a lot of negative people in life. Now, everyone is negative at times - but what I'm looking for are people who can provide their opinions on things constructively, without requiring that you must do what they say or else (unless it will actually help you and they can give a reason that makes sense to you, i.e. a mentor).

Whats a good way to go about finding the people you want to have in your life? Any tips?

NBW
 

DarkKnight

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Quality places bring quality people. Its why I like approaching girls at book stores and reading cafes because it is a more intellectial crowd. But if you go to lower class places, you will encounter more lower class people. In the past I liked to draw people from my background but ultimately realized what a dumb filtering system that is. Chosing familiar because it is familiar .

I noticed from fighting classes that Brazilian Jiu Jitsu people are usually more intelligent and tactical, regular boxers however lean to less intelligent people.

Or look at girlschase: I am certain it draws the intellectuals because of how most articles are written on an intellectual level.
 
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