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How to game a girl and take her home if she is leaving your city the next day?

Deeppua

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I met this girl at a park who was traveling to my country for a holiday and she was going to leave my city the next day. I took her for an instant date and then I had to go somewhere for a short break of 1 hr and so I told her I'm gonna see her in 1 hr and we can watch a movie at my place with some wine if she likes. She said she doesn't go to someone's place who she doesn't know well. So I said everyone gets to know everyone at some stage and I left the ball in her court saying if you like, you can come else it's fine. She said she'll think and she'll let me know. Of course I knew she's not going to get back to me and she didn't answer my messages or pick my call later when I tried to reach her. Could I have done better?
 
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Grand Pooba

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If a girl is leaving the next day it's not the end of the world - in fact sometimes it's a really good thing, and just could mean she's extra down for some traveling dick if she hasn't had any yet. It just means you have to accelerate the seduction - more compliance, more venues, more comfort, and all faster.

In your case it sounds like you jumped from instant date to home invite too quickly. Instead I would have invited her out somewhere near your house for drinks (or similar) and then after 1-2 venues, invite her home for some fun.
 

Tony D

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You could have framed it different. You were a bit too polite. Don't ask, instead, assume the sale.

Her: I'm leaving tomorrow.
You: Great, come by my place and say goodbye. Just you can't stay long because I'm working early. My address is 345 bullshit road. What time can you be here?"

It may not work, but it will work better than giving a wishy washy request.
 

Deeppua

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You could have framed it different. You were a bit too polite. Don't ask, instead, assume the sale.

Her: I'm leaving tomorrow.
You: Great, come by my place and say goodbye. Just you can't stay long because I'm working early. My address is 345 bullshit road. What time can you be here?"

It may not work, but it will work better than giving a wishy washy request.

Two completely opposite views :) The other answer said I was too quick in inviting her home and should've bounced to a few other places. I get confused

I actually followed this yesterday:
 
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