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First off, Happy new year everyone. May 2017 bring you all the things you desire.
I have slept with around 60 or 70 women in the last couple of years, and before that I have been in a LTR with a very pretty girl. I am not saying this to brag, just sharing it so you know what my situation is like.
Last night I realised something, whilst working on new years eve. I have no idea how to attract women in my regular day-to-day life.
Most of these girls I've slept with I have met through drunk nights out or on Tinder.
It is like I have a seperate secret pick up identity, where I probably act or carry myself around differently.
I have gone 4 years in university not picking up any of my class-mates or girls that were in any way related to my studies. Looking back at all the places I've worked, I have never slept with any girl I met at work like co-workers. Same with any girls Ive met through friends.
My regular identity is totally sex-less, Its like I've learnt to put it away and not show it in regular life.
It's pretty annoying, I meet a lot of cute girls in my regular life, and dont stand a chance of picking them up, because they dont see me as sexual probably.
So my question is, has anyone here dealt with the same issue, having like a pick-up/sex identity on the side and having your regular identity in "normal" life?
Or does anyone have the same issue? any ideas?
Regards
S
I have slept with around 60 or 70 women in the last couple of years, and before that I have been in a LTR with a very pretty girl. I am not saying this to brag, just sharing it so you know what my situation is like.
Last night I realised something, whilst working on new years eve. I have no idea how to attract women in my regular day-to-day life.
Most of these girls I've slept with I have met through drunk nights out or on Tinder.
It is like I have a seperate secret pick up identity, where I probably act or carry myself around differently.
I have gone 4 years in university not picking up any of my class-mates or girls that were in any way related to my studies. Looking back at all the places I've worked, I have never slept with any girl I met at work like co-workers. Same with any girls Ive met through friends.
My regular identity is totally sex-less, Its like I've learnt to put it away and not show it in regular life.
It's pretty annoying, I meet a lot of cute girls in my regular life, and dont stand a chance of picking them up, because they dont see me as sexual probably.
So my question is, has anyone here dealt with the same issue, having like a pick-up/sex identity on the side and having your regular identity in "normal" life?
Or does anyone have the same issue? any ideas?
Regards
S