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How would you have handled this?...girl who messed the seduction up

Ree

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Today I went out on a date...leith one of the prettier girls I have ever met...we went to a nice chill bar..had a couple of drinks....cosied up....had a nice conversation...then suddenly she takes out her bag...looks at her phone and exclaims...her best friend has been calling her non stop..she had like ten missed calls ...so she asks if it's ok if she calls back.....she calls....I am hearing only her side of the convo...and it goes something like


:hey...I am good....no..I am in westlands...yeah....that Cuban bar...cool...see you in a bit.

Immediately she hangs up ..I ask her....did you just invite your friend over ?....she says yes...I tell her that that is really offensive...(in a casual way)....I act baffled.....who the hell invites their friend over on a date......she says....we don't have to all hang out....I will just hang out with her after our date is over......
Later on she apologizes.....I deep dive about her...so as to not act pissed off...which I was....
...her friend arrives...I greet her friend...,say my goodbyes......I go pay the bill..and walk out....I notice they look confused....I am pretty sure they expected me to take them out all night....l am curious as to how you guys would handle this......
It was only 7pm.....would you have continued with the date?...would you have shot for a threesome scenario.....?....if you exit....who reinstates contact?.......anyway this girl was very fine and very interesting...I really hate that she had to throw me a curve ball like that
 

WayOfHand

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Cannot say I have experience of the exact same scenario and I definetely buy the thinking behind your actions. Still I somehow feel that you might have tried to push it and see where it goes. Stacking piles of compliance from the girls and strong leading and if they wouldn't go with it then check out as you did. With a mentality that since they put you into such position they better deliver more than usual.
 
a good date brings a smile to your lips... and hers
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