- Joined
- Jul 8, 2014
- Messages
- 7
First time happened two weeks ago on Saturday evening...
Second, last Saturday evening...
This has been bothering me since I first blurted it out.
I broke up with my ex in September 2016, she was the same girl I asked out for ice creams after she hit me up on Tinder. We dated almost 2 years.
I met this new girl about six weeks ago on a cruise ship and been seeing her every weekend after that.
The first time I called the girl with my ex's name was after we talked about our relationship and where it's heading, I had drank about 3 or 4 glasses of red wine and we were on the sofa just about to get in bed to have sex.
For some strange reason right after I whispered in her ear "I want to make you feel good" I said the name Maria when I was meant to say Stacy.
I managed to save the situation (we had great sex after this) by saying that the conversation we had was pretty much the same I had with Maria when I was discussing the stage of our relationship with her (which is absolutely true). Is it possible that I subconsciously called her Maria because I had had the same conversation about the same subject last time with Maria? I was also feeling a little bit drunk after drinking those glasses of wine...
The second time happened last Saturday when me and Stacy and few of her friends were sitting on stairs at the river where me and Maria used to spend time. We used to walk across the river and in summer we spent time on the grass by the river. I remember a time when we even had an argument while we were sitting on almost the same stairs me and Stacy and her friends were sitting on.
I managed to save this situation as well by asking "How many times have you called your teacher "Mother"?" To which she replied "None" with a little bit of disappointment in her voice. She did keep smiling and winking at me after we left to have few more drinks at a near by bar before I left to a cruise ship with my friend.
Is it possible that I keep calling Stacy Maria because we have been doing almost exact same things I used to do with Maria and because of that my brain is subconsciously thinking that I am with Maria?
Stacy invited me to join her in a housewarming party possibly next Saturday and I'm already feeling so fucking anxious because the last two Saturdays have included so much awkwardness...
Have any of you been in a situation like this? If yes, how did you manage to get out of the habit of calling the girl you are seeing by the wrong name?
Tuomas
(Edit: changed my name from TomW to Tuomas)
Second, last Saturday evening...
This has been bothering me since I first blurted it out.
I broke up with my ex in September 2016, she was the same girl I asked out for ice creams after she hit me up on Tinder. We dated almost 2 years.
I met this new girl about six weeks ago on a cruise ship and been seeing her every weekend after that.
The first time I called the girl with my ex's name was after we talked about our relationship and where it's heading, I had drank about 3 or 4 glasses of red wine and we were on the sofa just about to get in bed to have sex.
For some strange reason right after I whispered in her ear "I want to make you feel good" I said the name Maria when I was meant to say Stacy.
I managed to save the situation (we had great sex after this) by saying that the conversation we had was pretty much the same I had with Maria when I was discussing the stage of our relationship with her (which is absolutely true). Is it possible that I subconsciously called her Maria because I had had the same conversation about the same subject last time with Maria? I was also feeling a little bit drunk after drinking those glasses of wine...
The second time happened last Saturday when me and Stacy and few of her friends were sitting on stairs at the river where me and Maria used to spend time. We used to walk across the river and in summer we spent time on the grass by the river. I remember a time when we even had an argument while we were sitting on almost the same stairs me and Stacy and her friends were sitting on.
I managed to save this situation as well by asking "How many times have you called your teacher "Mother"?" To which she replied "None" with a little bit of disappointment in her voice. She did keep smiling and winking at me after we left to have few more drinks at a near by bar before I left to a cruise ship with my friend.
Is it possible that I keep calling Stacy Maria because we have been doing almost exact same things I used to do with Maria and because of that my brain is subconsciously thinking that I am with Maria?
Stacy invited me to join her in a housewarming party possibly next Saturday and I'm already feeling so fucking anxious because the last two Saturdays have included so much awkwardness...
Have any of you been in a situation like this? If yes, how did you manage to get out of the habit of calling the girl you are seeing by the wrong name?
Tuomas
(Edit: changed my name from TomW to Tuomas)