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I say this having done well over 500 approaches and having played around on dating apps for a little bit. It seemed like when I was in San Francisco, it was impossible to get a white woman who was above average looking unless you were a millionaire and race definitely played a big role too, but I won't get into that too much.
Won't paint the thread with negativity as much I will about some of the positive experiences I've had with white girls who grew up in areas where there was not much racial diversity.
I notice that with small town girls and even white girls that grew up in places where there were not a lot of minorities, their attitude tends to be friendlier. They're generally approachable, nicer, genuinely kind to people, and you don't have to have an out of the world social value to get with them. In the looks department, they are just as attractive as their big city counterparts but they seem human in terms of how they act, like they actually have a heart and soul.
Now I compare these same girls with their counterparts that grew up in San Francisco and some of the other more "racially diverse" areas of the country and they are a polar opposite, even a white girl that is a 5 in regards to looks but grew up in San Francisco feels entitled to a Chris Hemsworth.
Here is the other thing that really trips me up, I find white girls from racially homogenous areas to ironically be more open minded.
Like if a cool sexy Indian guy came up to them, they would be receptive and even if he was lame, they would reject him for being lame. They don't seem to have pre-conceived notions of men of different races and even if they do, their stereotypes are not as in-depth.
For example, a white girl in San Francisco or LA might immediately stereotype an Indian guy with everything nasty she has heard and laugh at his attempt to woo her while one from an area that lacks racial diversity goes in wanting to see how things will unfold.
I noticed among my friends of minority groups and even with my own experiences, they were usually dating or hooking up with white girls that had this sort of a background. Like my friend in NYC would be hooking up with girls that moved there from the midwest or some really white area yet struggle with local white girls who were raised around "racial diversity". We even laughed and joked about how the same women who think "racism" from the Republicans is so bad tend to exclusively go for the whitest guys out there.
Why is this?
Won't paint the thread with negativity as much I will about some of the positive experiences I've had with white girls who grew up in areas where there was not much racial diversity.
I notice that with small town girls and even white girls that grew up in places where there were not a lot of minorities, their attitude tends to be friendlier. They're generally approachable, nicer, genuinely kind to people, and you don't have to have an out of the world social value to get with them. In the looks department, they are just as attractive as their big city counterparts but they seem human in terms of how they act, like they actually have a heart and soul.
Now I compare these same girls with their counterparts that grew up in San Francisco and some of the other more "racially diverse" areas of the country and they are a polar opposite, even a white girl that is a 5 in regards to looks but grew up in San Francisco feels entitled to a Chris Hemsworth.
Here is the other thing that really trips me up, I find white girls from racially homogenous areas to ironically be more open minded.
Like if a cool sexy Indian guy came up to them, they would be receptive and even if he was lame, they would reject him for being lame. They don't seem to have pre-conceived notions of men of different races and even if they do, their stereotypes are not as in-depth.
For example, a white girl in San Francisco or LA might immediately stereotype an Indian guy with everything nasty she has heard and laugh at his attempt to woo her while one from an area that lacks racial diversity goes in wanting to see how things will unfold.
I noticed among my friends of minority groups and even with my own experiences, they were usually dating or hooking up with white girls that had this sort of a background. Like my friend in NYC would be hooking up with girls that moved there from the midwest or some really white area yet struggle with local white girls who were raised around "racial diversity". We even laughed and joked about how the same women who think "racism" from the Republicans is so bad tend to exclusively go for the whitest guys out there.
Why is this?
