Iceman's Log

[lceman]

Banged the girl from last year. A few things stood out:

1. met her near my place - she was a little upset I ate without her. then suggested a bar. i suggested we take drinks back to my place. She complied easily which tells me I can get away with not going on dates.

2. she asked if i had a condom when we started walking to my place, confirming my suspicion that culturally there is no innocent reason to go back to someone's house. Helping to explain why I lost a couple girls earlier this month outside the door.

3. We drank like one cup then she asks if I'm drunk before opening up to touch. Have heard this a few times from girls I banged so I guess there needs to be an excuse and alcohol works.

4. This girl was very receptive, warm, gave me compliments and in general made things easy. Same thing with the last girl. Wondering if I'm only pulling in very green girls or the dating world here is more polarizing & screening heavy.

5. Confirmed after she has a boyfriend. And that he's a little boring. "We're just friends" lol

She's definitely worth keeping on rotation for a while. But if I'm 100% honest, I'm not happy with the quality of girls in my life. I've never really pulled top tier hot girls and that's what I want to change.

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Daygame has still been rough. Good approach opportunities are rare so I'm working to ping quicker in the tiny windows I'm getting. Had at least a couple girls I wasn't sold on ask me why I was talking to them and others who just waved me off or walked away. Most people say that girls don't usually talk to strangers and instead go to clubs to meet guys.

My schedule makes that near impossible so I'll keep cracking on daygame and try some group activities as well.

 

[lceman]

Went out last night, confirmed girls are much more receptive there than during the day.

Met one with a friend, drank together, failed to pull. posted the fr here

I usually go for natural good looks over flashy hot girls but this was fun. Funny to see guys on the street react as she walked by.

Next time I'm going to overtly state that I'm lonely/looking for a girl tonight when I go out. With these girls it would've been fun to go flirt with others and have them help me find someone. And worst case maybe end up with the hot one.

And get touchy quicker. Conclusion from last night is to build more arousal, not just attraction.

 

[lceman]

Dead lead for sure. Gonna ping her next month but expecting nothing.

Started up a couple social circles so we'll see how that plays out.

Still not hooking well with daygame. Pings just aren't going far enough although I'm getting further than before.

It's really weird, because I'm not getting anywhere even when the AIs are there. She'll smile, laugh, be attracted, 'compliant' in terms of letting me move her, have her do things, etc... and completely block all attempts to escalate whatsoever, even if it's just a number.

Or give blatant signals then bail immediately when I open. Smiling/laughing all the way.

Not sure if I'm getting attention baited or what. Gonna try opening not in english and see if that helps.

 

[lceman]

Been a lot of the same this week. Although I've gotten some big negative reactions which is interesting.

One thing on my mind is compliance ≠ conviction. Sure she can give me her number. But if she's not convinced, it's just going to be a flake. So I've got to warm her up more than I think. And if I'm being honest, I've only 'converted' a yellow girl once or twice. Normally the girls I do well with are already quite receptive off the bat.

Social circles are fun but very hit or miss (miss) when it comes to actually finding hot girls.

When I'm stressed during the day I don't notice much. If I ramp up my libido I get AIs, but only if I lead with strong eye contact.

Fundamentals are not as good as I'd like. Body and style still need work.

And I realized I don't really care to go on dates. All I want right now are hot girls I can hit up when I'm stressed and want to have some fun with. I've got a few weeks left here so there may not be enough time to make that real.