if she's difficult now, she'll always be difficult

[naturalmikey]

this is a motto i live by that really helps me avoid time wasters. it honestly couldn't be less true though. i've had extremely difficult girls become kind and submissive after i fucked em a couple times. but those chicks required a lot of effort to get to that point. i think it's just not worth it. i guess the better way to put it is "if she's difficult now she will be until you've fucked her twice, and that can take a long time with a difficult girl." this concept of believing something that isn't true is what is called a selective blindspot. these are great to have. like "looks don't matter." although this is 100% false it's a good blind spot to have when new.

i guess i'm posting this because i see so many guys spending time on "time wasters." i find my time is better spent acquiring new leads than investing mental and emotional energy on a girl who isn't that down. i just burn numbers to the ground personally. i go for the meet up fast then leave the ball in their court. it hardly ever materializes. but even putting effort into texting i experienced the same thing. some might say "well your interactions aren't that good." it's more likely my interactions are highly sexual and about going for the pull, which make girls second guess seeing me because they don't wanna feel like a slut or something. i don't know. anyway i'd like to see some guys here quit worrying about sally who works at the starbucks by their house, or betty from math class, or lucy in their office. go out and meet some girls.

 

[DarkKnight]

It's because everyone is plagued with the thought "what if" I did this or that. Also girls giving you mixed messages can draw you in. But I agree with you, working the numbers with decent game is better than micro calibrating through female emotional turbulation. I think with age we screen much faster.