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hello forest woodland creatures/my dudes,
was on a long car ride with a girl today. there was plenty of sexual conversation initially and everything was going well. I took a little detour to do some deep diving and made a little mistake.
She's been in school for a while, and was expressing to me how it makes her depressed:
This look overcame her face. The best way I can describe it is that it was a weird look on her face. Like she thought what I said was weird... Can't remember what her reply was - I don't think she said anything.
My comment was obviously not well received. I can see why...she mentioned depression and I tried to joke around about it. I believe she felt that I was being insensitive and this caused my attainability to go down a little bit.
I acted like nothing had happened and we continued with the conversation. Things were fine though, she didn't go into auto rejection or anything (no immediate change in her behaviour after the weird look). However if this occurred really early in the conversation, she definitely would have gone into auto rejection.
I've noticed a pattern forming, sometimes i say insensitive things and girls don't like that. What would have been the proper way to come back QUICKLY from this particular situation and insensitive remarks in general?
was on a long car ride with a girl today. there was plenty of sexual conversation initially and everything was going well. I took a little detour to do some deep diving and made a little mistake.
She's been in school for a while, and was expressing to me how it makes her depressed:
This look overcame her face. The best way I can describe it is that it was a weird look on her face. Like she thought what I said was weird... Can't remember what her reply was - I don't think she said anything.
My comment was obviously not well received. I can see why...she mentioned depression and I tried to joke around about it. I believe she felt that I was being insensitive and this caused my attainability to go down a little bit.
I acted like nothing had happened and we continued with the conversation. Things were fine though, she didn't go into auto rejection or anything (no immediate change in her behaviour after the weird look). However if this occurred really early in the conversation, she definitely would have gone into auto rejection.
I've noticed a pattern forming, sometimes i say insensitive things and girls don't like that. What would have been the proper way to come back QUICKLY from this particular situation and insensitive remarks in general?
