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Hey guys,
I've got a question about how you deal with male friends and groups of girls that you know. Do you actively introduce your male friends to groups of girls that you know? I have a very close friend that I love doing cold approach in bars and clubs with together but usually it's like we do the pre-drinking together and then in the club we're both on our own and meet every now and then in the middle of the party.
At the same time I'm a tutor of exchange students in my city so every start of the semester I get to know a lot of girls that are up to meeting people and partying and I like inviting them to events that I'm attending. I like the attention of this and to have the possibility to hook up with some of them. My friend is not a tutor but sometimes he asks me what I'm doing and I usually tell him that he can tag along even when I'm with some of the exchange girls. So the thing is I feel like in these moments, he can just come start flirting and trying to pick them up, when I did all the ground work before. Am I being too selfish here or are you guys thinking similarily?
He's very respectful of bro code but in the beginning with new girls there's usually no fixed targets yet, but I don't like the fact that it sets me under pressure indirectly because he starts flirting really quickly and I prefer taking it slower in social settings. He's a natural game wise in one on one with girls, but in group conversations I'm the more dominant.
I've got a question about how you deal with male friends and groups of girls that you know. Do you actively introduce your male friends to groups of girls that you know? I have a very close friend that I love doing cold approach in bars and clubs with together but usually it's like we do the pre-drinking together and then in the club we're both on our own and meet every now and then in the middle of the party.
At the same time I'm a tutor of exchange students in my city so every start of the semester I get to know a lot of girls that are up to meeting people and partying and I like inviting them to events that I'm attending. I like the attention of this and to have the possibility to hook up with some of them. My friend is not a tutor but sometimes he asks me what I'm doing and I usually tell him that he can tag along even when I'm with some of the exchange girls. So the thing is I feel like in these moments, he can just come start flirting and trying to pick them up, when I did all the ground work before. Am I being too selfish here or are you guys thinking similarily?
He's very respectful of bro code but in the beginning with new girls there's usually no fixed targets yet, but I don't like the fact that it sets me under pressure indirectly because he starts flirting really quickly and I prefer taking it slower in social settings. He's a natural game wise in one on one with girls, but in group conversations I'm the more dominant.
