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Inviting Girls to Swim at Your Hotel Pool

D. Gately

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I feel like I should have thought of this years ago. I don't invite girls over to my place, I invite them to a hotel or we go back to their place. About ~70% of the time it's a 2-date model for me otherwise it's ONS/SDL.

So when I invite a girl to my hotel room on the 2nd date, she knows it's on, of course not all say yes but most do. But I just figured out a way to increase compliance on the 1st and 2nd date this time of year.

'Why don't we head back to my hotel room, they have a great indoor pool....'

This just popped into my head when I was having drinks with a girl last week, and her eyes lit up and got so big. 'OMG, that sounds incredible, let me grab my bikini I'll meet you there!' [I knew she lived nearby].

She arrived with a blue bikini, we hit the pool for a while, showered in the room and we had lotsa fun in bed.

The appeal is not just of the pool itself, but the plausible deniability. 'Pool and chill...'

I don't often bother to check out the pools at every new hotel I stay at, but that's gonna change. You gotta figure most 20-somethings in the city do not have access to a nice pool regularly.

Used it in a text to another girl today to schedule a meetup and got a 'YES!!!!!' in reply. Odds of flaking just went down a ton.
 

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I feel like I should have thought of this years ago. I don't invite girls over to my place, I invite them to a hotel or we go back to their place. About ~70% of the time it's a 2-date model for me otherwise it's ONS/SDL.

So when I invite a girl to my hotel room on the 2nd date, she knows it's on, of course not all say yes but most do. But I just figured out a way to increase compliance on the 1st and 2nd date this time of year.

'Why don't we head back to my hotel room, they have a great indoor pool....'

This just popped into my head when I was having drinks with a girl last week, and her eyes lit up and got so big. 'OMG, that sounds incredible, let me grab my bikini I'll meet you there!' [I knew she lived nearby].

She arrived with a blue bikini, we hit the pool for a while, showered in the room and we had lotsa fun in bed.

The appeal is not just of the pool itself, but the plausible deniability. 'Pool and chill...'

I don't often bother to check out the pools at every new hotel I stay at, but that's gonna change. You gotta figure most 20-somethings in the city do not have access to a nice pool regularly.

Used it in a text to another girl today to schedule a meetup and got a 'YES!!!!!' in reply. Odds of flaking just went down a ton.
Yes! Women obsessed with pools and water... Really good idea...
 
a good date brings a smile to your lips... and hers

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Nice idea & topic, @D. Gately.

There used to be hot tub rental places in some cities where you could rent a private hot tub for an hour at a time.

I had those recommended to me multiple times as pull locations by various seducers. Unfortunately, it is pretty hard to find dedicated hot tub rental spots...

However, you can absolutely rent hotel rooms with jacuzzis. "Let's go chill in my jacuzzi with drinks and the jets on." Can work well.

The hotel pool idea is interesting though because it's more public than "the jacuzzi in my room", so you can take her there earlier on. Also IMO hotel pools are usually mostly empty... so you should mostly have the pool to yourself anyway.

Good stuff!

Gonna move this to Tactics & Techniques and give it a retitle.

Chase
 

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Next month, I'm moving to an apartment with an indoor pool in the building, so this thread fills me with joy!

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