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I feel like I should have thought of this years ago. I don't invite girls over to my place, I invite them to a hotel or we go back to their place. About ~70% of the time it's a 2-date model for me otherwise it's ONS/SDL.
So when I invite a girl to my hotel room on the 2nd date, she knows it's on, of course not all say yes but most do. But I just figured out a way to increase compliance on the 1st and 2nd date this time of year.
'Why don't we head back to my hotel room, they have a great indoor pool....'
This just popped into my head when I was having drinks with a girl last week, and her eyes lit up and got so big. 'OMG, that sounds incredible, let me grab my bikini I'll meet you there!' [I knew she lived nearby].
She arrived with a blue bikini, we hit the pool for a while, showered in the room and we had lotsa fun in bed.
The appeal is not just of the pool itself, but the plausible deniability. 'Pool and chill...'
I don't often bother to check out the pools at every new hotel I stay at, but that's gonna change. You gotta figure most 20-somethings in the city do not have access to a nice pool regularly.
Used it in a text to another girl today to schedule a meetup and got a 'YES!!!!!' in reply. Odds of flaking just went down a ton.
So when I invite a girl to my hotel room on the 2nd date, she knows it's on, of course not all say yes but most do. But I just figured out a way to increase compliance on the 1st and 2nd date this time of year.
'Why don't we head back to my hotel room, they have a great indoor pool....'
This just popped into my head when I was having drinks with a girl last week, and her eyes lit up and got so big. 'OMG, that sounds incredible, let me grab my bikini I'll meet you there!' [I knew she lived nearby].
She arrived with a blue bikini, we hit the pool for a while, showered in the room and we had lotsa fun in bed.
The appeal is not just of the pool itself, but the plausible deniability. 'Pool and chill...'
I don't often bother to check out the pools at every new hotel I stay at, but that's gonna change. You gotta figure most 20-somethings in the city do not have access to a nice pool regularly.
Used it in a text to another girl today to schedule a meetup and got a 'YES!!!!!' in reply. Odds of flaking just went down a ton.

