Is it good or detrimental to be on social media?

The Slay

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The point is to get laid (for me anyway).

If your social media shows high status you'll get easy pickings.

From a skill-based standpoint, your success there won't carryover as much if you're doing day game. This should be obvious. But then again, the point of day game is still to get laid. :cool:
 

trashKENNUT

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It's not just getting laid.
It's more than that

"I never once desired to have a lot of fame.

But to be honest, the ideas change when it comes to a particular aspect. I now know that I need to be famous in order to bring the type of high quality that we want."

- Taeyang, BIGBANG

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The Slay

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It's not just getting laid.
It's more than that

"I never once desired to have a lot of fame.

But to be honest, the ideas change when it comes to a particular aspect. I now know that I need to be famous in order to bring the type of high quality that we want."

- Taeyang, BIGBANG

z@c+

It's about getting laid. Romanticizing it is just a cope.
 

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The point is to get laid (for me anyway).

If your social media shows high status you'll get easy pickings.

From a skill-based standpoint, your success there won't carryover as much if you're doing day game. This should be obvious. But then again, the point of day game is still to get laid. :cool:


Yeah if you have high status (large following) and post a lot you get laid like crazy...i have a friend like this...
 

trashKENNUT

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You are "too rigid".

But I get what you mean. Your words imply that everything is a means to an end.

'Getting laid' isn't the right word, if that is the case.

Anyway,

Getting laid is one perks of having a great social media. You also have to access to other high level people.

Where you become snobs and Woke, together. :)

z@c+
 

The Slay

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I'm the opposite of rigid. I embrace all that gives me what I desire. Rigid are those who discard other means of getting sex because pickup artists claim it's useless (because they aren't cool or charismatic online). They'll abide by a code or rule others set up that limits them and disregard their own personal pleasure and fulfillment.
 

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I don’t like social media in general. I do have one account for friends and connections where the phone number isn’t sufficient. This I barely use or update. Then there are professional accounts, like LinkedIn, which I’m guessing OP isn’t really talking about.

social media is very distracting and doesn’t offer any benefits, with exceptions like running a business or pickup. I value anonymity and having as few people know who I am or what I do as possible. It’s no ones business. Even if accounts are “private” there are ways around that. We see screen shots of people’s tinder and Facebook accounts all the time, which can fuck your employment and life. There are so many nosy people out there lol

I personally don’t think it’s wise to mix professional, social and sexual life. Sometimes they inevitably overlap, but I think it all ought to be minimized.

Social media also produces a lot of obnoxious behavior, like people taking photos and videos everywhere and at every moment. Annoying as fuck. Selfies are another one. Attention whoring. Getting clicks and likes. The software is literally designed to manipulate you. I don’t need to partake in that I already have a job and relatives if I want to be used lollolol jk.

anytime it’s suggested you mix these three domains you should immediately become skeptical, like when it’s suggested to mix your social media with getting ass (via Instagram or whatever), getting ass with your job (how to bang the HR department / selling pickup material unanonymously) or your job with your social life (being buddy buddies with coworkers, then drinking too much and saying too much at happy hour) - and you should be skeptical because there are potential consequences around the corner that could be permanent or out of your damage control.
 

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I don’t like social media in general. I do have one account for friends and connections where the phone number isn’t sufficient. This I barely use or update. Then there are professional accounts, like LinkedIn, which I’m guessing OP isn’t really talking about.

social media is very distracting and doesn’t offer any benefits, with exceptions like running a business or pickup. I value anonymity and having as few people know who I am or what I do as possible. It’s no ones business. Even if accounts are “private” there are ways around that. We see screen shots of people’s tinder and Facebook accounts all the time, which can fuck your employment and life. There are so many nosy people out there lol

I personally don’t think it’s wise to mix professional, social and sexual life. Sometimes they inevitably overlap, but I think it all ought to be minimized.

Social media also produces a lot of obnoxious behavior, like people taking photos and videos everywhere and at every moment. Annoying as fuck. Selfies are another one. Attention whoring. Getting clicks and likes. The software is literally designed to manipulate you. I don’t need to partake in that I already have a job and relatives if I want to be used lollolol jk.

anytime it’s suggested you mix these three domains you should immediately become skeptical, like when it’s suggested to mix your social media with getting ass (via Instagram or whatever), getting ass with your job (how to bang the HR department / selling pickup material unanonymously) or your job with your social life (being buddy buddies with coworkers, then drinking too much and saying too much at happy hour) - and you should be skeptical because there are potential consequences around the corner that could be permanent or out of your damage control.

^ i agree with all this, if you read the article i wrote i make similar points and more.....

But, for seduction it totally can help if you have a large following, good pics like traveling, showing a good lifestyle and/or combining it with a cool biz is a dhv....

The question is... Is the time and effort involve aka return on investment worth it???

The best solution to the social media question that i found is by @POB to combine your biz presence with couple of personal pics.... This is the direction i am leaning towards.....


is not about what we like, is about what will be better for seduction stand points, it all depends of your willingness to invest in it... I had a very nice dhv presence when myspace was popular, it does totally help.... I know guys that get laid from it and do it right....

I personally like you don't like it, and don't think the roi is there for me... But i am planning to use it for biz and throw in some personal pics..
 

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Social media has recently fucked up one girl i was trying to convert to FB and one girl i went on a date with and made out with and had heavy petting with who was guaranteed lay for second meet, because they stalked my social media and got my real age. I recently removed my pfp from facebook but i'm not sure it's gonna be a positive change. Girls like to show this new guy off to their friends and if they can't find me, sure, it will get the hamster spinning, but until you have real life comfort and investment with her i think it is gonna make her more uncomfortable, than attracted to my mysteriousness. I will have my pfp off for a lil bit now and see..... Anyways my solution is just to not give my social media out to girls i number close anymore. On facebook you can still have them on messenger even if you aren't friends on facebook. This is fine. You can even when girls give their instragrams, just DM them and don't follow. They will just get a DM request from you haha. This popped into my mind while writing this. Definitely worth experimenting with. They can see your pfp and your profile, but everything's hidden behind "private" hehe.... They're gonna wonder what's in there. If they try to add you or follow request, just say "Hmm, i would like to get to know you better first ;')". This i'm gonna start doing.

But what @Chrance said. I too am a very private person. You never know what crazy friends/brothers/dad she got or whatever. My social media is none of their business.
 

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I just don't allow people to tagged me. It has to go thru request first.

You just have to limit the damages, or go on the offense. Living in fear, is like most german citizens during Nazi Germany, and Americans today. I am just saying. You are going to lose. You going to lose everything. They will go after you anyway. And this is just one example. Your girl must be strong headed to a certain level and her friends must be kinda let her do her own thing.

Girls who listen to her friends and family all the time, usually does not have a backbone. They are not girls whom you want in the long run, at least for me.

It's funny how even Girlschase label everyone as "beta". Not directly, literally but kinda implying. And we kinda cowards in some ways.. I'm just showing who we are, really

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Skjöldr

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I just don't allow people to tagged me. It has to go thru request first.
Same, but some still dig it up.

You just have to limit the damages, or go on the offense. Living in fear, is like most german citizens during Nazi Germany, and Americans today. I am just saying. You are going to lose. You going to lose everything. They will go after you anyway. And this is just one example. Your girl must be strong headed to a certain level and her friends must be kinda let her do her own thing.

Girls who listen to her friends and family all the time, usually does not have a backbone. They are not girls whom you want in the long run, at least for me.

It's funny how even Girlschase label everyone as "beta". Not directly, literally but kinda implying. And we kinda cowards in some ways.. I'm just showing who we are, really

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Extremely foolish and not in any way comparable to this situation. It gains me nothing to be public and stick my head way out, quite the opposite. Cut your losses. Keep your mouth shut and your eyes and ears open. There's no need to live in fear, but no need to live in unnecessary danger either. It's not being a coward, but being smart. Why take a big risk for little to no reward, when you can take a big risk for a big reward. I'm not scared to pay the price, but by god i demand the price gotta be worth paying. This is getting sidetracked, as we are simply discussing whether or not to make yourself stalkable on social media, but what i described is my philosophy.
 

trashKENNUT

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uncomfortable, than attracted to my mysteriousness. I will have my pfp off for a lil bit now and see.

You are trying to get the best out of both worlds. You want 'locker room credentials' while still being mysterious. If you don't want social media shit storm, you can't have photos online. Except google photos.

no sharing of photos. even with guy friends, ever.

It's very simple.

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jackgignac

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I have a really nice social media built up but women also operate in a disqualifying frame so I'm thinking to possibly do a 30 day challenge where I cut it out along with coffee, porn (I watch porn in moderation). and then rebuild up my daygame, education, gym etc. and see end of 30 days if I like it better. social media is a huge cheap dopamine distraction too and then we wonder why we're getting lazier with time. they literally split test to make the shit as addictive as possible without actually caring if it's making us an objectively better person or not. No instead it makes us often do shit that looks good but makes us an ADD psychopath
 
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