I see your point about bars being S-tier for pickup. I don't go to bars and nightclubs because of the sensory overload and I find them draining since i'm introverted. But I think I will go to a singles event at a bar again. It went well last time.
I see your point about bars being S-tier for pickup. I don't go to bars and nightclubs because of the sensory overload and I find them draining since i'm introverted. But I think I will go to a singles event at a bar again. It went well last time.
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sensory overload and being introverted is just a cope, many guys with both (some gurus) are half of the community... Just saying.... analogy "i don't like to go to work because i only like to work from home and i don't like a boss telling me what to do"...
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It's not!!!
This is definitely a thing, cause I'm exactly like that!
Though you are right, its not an excuse to skip going out....there are workarounds.
I still go out to dance almost every weekend, without feeling burned out, because I take strategic breaks....and use some other techniques.
Doable for sure, not a cope by any means.
