Just Got One-Date

[Sam]

Chase,

I think I owed you that one. I am an avid reader of your material since year 2012, several times I commented on your articles, asking questions to which you have replied many times, and - although I have become lazy lately - I have written several field reports, not to mention that I have systematically implemented and propagated your content to fellow friends who take their masculine self-improvement as seriously as I do.

It felt only natural to me to just click mindlessly that "next" button to get your new product.

Based on your test, I am a Technician. This practically means I mostly have quality issues with women (general abundance is down for the last 3 years at least, but absolute abundance is still fleeting, not many dream girls in my bed and life etc). In particular, while I have managed to get dream girls to go out on a date with me, it either went nowhere or I just reached "kiss close level" with them, mainly because I was overall stiff with them instead of "fun" and "relaxed".

By buying your product I hope that I will get over this current plateau and move to the next stage of my dating life - which I really feel is very close. I just need to push a bit more.

Warm Greetings From Greece,
Sam

 

[NealIRC]

I got One-Day too.

I have somewhat of a comment on the "use innocuous lines" like "Scuse me, where's the nearest grocery store from here?" or "where is X street."

1. 1st off I use innocuous lines on Facebook messages, to Hispanic girls asking for gang information based on the neighborhood they live in (or based on the high school they went to), no complimentary lines. So what's wrong with that, it means you want the basis of the messaging to be "you receive and she give" so of course women are hardly going to respond.

2. If used in real life. Well unfortunately, if you don't know where the nearest bakery is, and stuff, it makes you seem like you're new to town. I think women are more into guys that are not new to town and can show them around. So good luck with that. In Chicago, this might work with White women but I don't see that with Hispanic or Black women, they're not looking to meet tourists.

Also if your innocuous line (thought this was not in the One Date) is "Scuse me ma'am, do you have the time?" What are you really saying to her. You're really saying to her you don't have a phone or a watch.

I don't really have any all-situational lines to use on White women in Chicago except "Are you new to Chicago?" and 90% of the time if they answer it's yes, and so I tell them anything you want to know, you can ask me.

This is like reverse innocuous lines lol.

Everything else seems to be legit.

However, regarding the article on text messaging. One Date made the text-messaging part look like 1 thing, and 1 thing only. And that's to ask for the next date.

Unfortunately, I use messaging to spit game. Spit and spit game. Until they either can't handle it no more, or hint that they want to meetup in real life...

 

[NealIRC]

Bump.

 

[NealIRC]

Another bump.

I was reading some of the new stuff on One Date, and now I have new questions, which I think can be posed as good articles.

-What happens when men give women approach invitations? How do women respond to that?

Since women are masters at knowing what is and what isn't an approach invitation, I wonder what they think if the other way around happens.