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So months ago I talked about community and the whole never feeling like a part of the "in crowd" thing when really, I was overcomplicating it now that I look back at it, I was.
Because anyone can get community, anyone.
It might not be quality community that involves cool friends but it is community nonetheless. Even in college when I look back to it, I had chances for a community, but it was not the community I wanted. I was doing the same to most people what the cool kids were doing to me. But I didn't want to hang out with the cool kids to be cool, I wanted to hang out with them so I could get hot girls and that is really it.
If having cool friends and doing cool shit meant you couldn't get hot girls, which does happen, you would not care to really engage much with that community. I have been out at nights with my friends and when I didn't get hot girls, that night kinda sucked.
Same as, when I see a guy with a lot of hot girls in his group, I get pissed and rationalize it. Maybe the hot girls are lowering their standards because he has status or some other sort of stuff, and I might even be right, but really I don't want his douchey friends or his bottles at a club lifestyle, I just want the hot girls he is getting.
There is a caveat to this though, maybe status is required to get certain kinds of hot girls.
At least with western white women, I feel like status is somewhat important if you are gunning for the good looking ones. They want guys who are "cool" in which case, lets talk about being a cool guy that has status and cool friends. But in the end, you really just want the pussy, that is it. Fuck the friends and community, that is a waste of time. You want to fuck her and multiple versions of her, to prove to yourself you can do it and do it again.
It feels good to be in a crowd which hot girls are in because it makes you feel like a man.
It feels good to have the lifestyle where they are coming to you and avoiding other guys, it is a confidence booster.
That is what you want, the rest is just gravy.
Because anyone can get community, anyone.
It might not be quality community that involves cool friends but it is community nonetheless. Even in college when I look back to it, I had chances for a community, but it was not the community I wanted. I was doing the same to most people what the cool kids were doing to me. But I didn't want to hang out with the cool kids to be cool, I wanted to hang out with them so I could get hot girls and that is really it.
If having cool friends and doing cool shit meant you couldn't get hot girls, which does happen, you would not care to really engage much with that community. I have been out at nights with my friends and when I didn't get hot girls, that night kinda sucked.
Same as, when I see a guy with a lot of hot girls in his group, I get pissed and rationalize it. Maybe the hot girls are lowering their standards because he has status or some other sort of stuff, and I might even be right, but really I don't want his douchey friends or his bottles at a club lifestyle, I just want the hot girls he is getting.
There is a caveat to this though, maybe status is required to get certain kinds of hot girls.
At least with western white women, I feel like status is somewhat important if you are gunning for the good looking ones. They want guys who are "cool" in which case, lets talk about being a cool guy that has status and cool friends. But in the end, you really just want the pussy, that is it. Fuck the friends and community, that is a waste of time. You want to fuck her and multiple versions of her, to prove to yourself you can do it and do it again.
It feels good to be in a crowd which hot girls are in because it makes you feel like a man.
It feels good to have the lifestyle where they are coming to you and avoiding other guys, it is a confidence booster.
That is what you want, the rest is just gravy.
