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Hey guys,
quick question about keeping casual relationships / fuckbuddies when you can't see them for a while due to you or them travelling / being on holidays.
So recently I had a casual relationships sizzling out because I couldn't see her in person for a while. In the first case over Christmas holidays there was a girl I met once a week for over a month. Then she texted me quite a lot during the holidays at first, for about two weeks (the holidays were 3 weeks in total) which I responded nicely also asking a bit back. But then suddenly she didn't respond anymore. When I then texted her again after the holidays she said "Oh I forgot answering you" and when asked about meeting up she said she's really busy at the moment with exams (which is true it's exam period, but it doesn't make me celibate
).
This also happened in other situations for me before.
So my question is, is there any way to keep attraction high even if you can't see the girl in person and give her sex / physicial contact? I know you're not supposed to text your FBs too much to not go into BF / friendzone land, but maybe send her like some dirty thoughts? Like "I had to study all day and I just had to think about what I could do instead with you."
Any input would be highly appreciated!
quick question about keeping casual relationships / fuckbuddies when you can't see them for a while due to you or them travelling / being on holidays.
So recently I had a casual relationships sizzling out because I couldn't see her in person for a while. In the first case over Christmas holidays there was a girl I met once a week for over a month. Then she texted me quite a lot during the holidays at first, for about two weeks (the holidays were 3 weeks in total) which I responded nicely also asking a bit back. But then suddenly she didn't respond anymore. When I then texted her again after the holidays she said "Oh I forgot answering you" and when asked about meeting up she said she's really busy at the moment with exams (which is true it's exam period, but it doesn't make me celibate
).This also happened in other situations for me before.
So my question is, is there any way to keep attraction high even if you can't see the girl in person and give her sex / physicial contact? I know you're not supposed to text your FBs too much to not go into BF / friendzone land, but maybe send her like some dirty thoughts? Like "I had to study all day and I just had to think about what I could do instead with you.
"Any input would be highly appreciated!
