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So I don't really have this problem anymore, but the fact I was never really able to come up with an answer really bugs me sometimes because I fucked up and was never really able to learn from it aside from getting better so it never happened again (but it was still a loss). Now that class is no longer in session, I have a lot more time to wonder and I ended up getting hooked on this:
(background)
So about two years ago, I was out on a date with a girl I had met in one of my high school classes. Everything was going great, I had managed to cram in some study time on this cite the night before my date and it all paid off. Or at least until we were alone and I had just finished the transition stage of our make out session (went on forever, looking back now). This girl was my first kiss (this went both ways) and I totally forgot what to do after the transition to kiss and so I had no idea how to escalate to sex after this or how to kiss well. So sex didn't happen. And the kiss sucked worse than crashing into a truckload of shit on picture day. We didn't talk much after and she broke up with me that night (which still sucks a little looking back but I've been meeting better and better women as life goes on so there's something to look forward to).
(question)
Now days, any woman I've ever been with has only said good things or expressed pleasure from my kissing thus far since I spent a lot of efforts improving in that area after this. And I know very well by heart how escalate to sex (if you've read some of my posts, you'll know this has actually gotten me into some trouble in the past but I don't think that's something a lot of guys would be too ashamed to say. Am I wrong?). However, I'm aware that a bad kiss can be something that kills both attraction and a relationship but have no idea how a guy would go about recovering from such a thing or if it's even possible (which is pretty much what I'm trying to figure out). So to put it simply: How could a guy recover in a seduction or relationship from dishing out a bad kiss? Or is it even possible?
(background)
So about two years ago, I was out on a date with a girl I had met in one of my high school classes. Everything was going great, I had managed to cram in some study time on this cite the night before my date and it all paid off. Or at least until we were alone and I had just finished the transition stage of our make out session (went on forever, looking back now). This girl was my first kiss (this went both ways) and I totally forgot what to do after the transition to kiss and so I had no idea how to escalate to sex after this or how to kiss well. So sex didn't happen. And the kiss sucked worse than crashing into a truckload of shit on picture day. We didn't talk much after and she broke up with me that night (which still sucks a little looking back but I've been meeting better and better women as life goes on so there's something to look forward to).
(question)
Now days, any woman I've ever been with has only said good things or expressed pleasure from my kissing thus far since I spent a lot of efforts improving in that area after this. And I know very well by heart how escalate to sex (if you've read some of my posts, you'll know this has actually gotten me into some trouble in the past but I don't think that's something a lot of guys would be too ashamed to say. Am I wrong?). However, I'm aware that a bad kiss can be something that kills both attraction and a relationship but have no idea how a guy would go about recovering from such a thing or if it's even possible (which is pretty much what I'm trying to figure out). So to put it simply: How could a guy recover in a seduction or relationship from dishing out a bad kiss? Or is it even possible?
