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Last resorts before moving on to the next girl!

Virgin101

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So let's say you're out and about chasing after girls (as we do), and you've made an approach. You've chatted a bit and have been clear in your intent. But you're pretty sure nothing's going to come of it. What do you do in situations like this, for your final shot at it before you throw in the towel? And I'm not even saying you have to do anything... you've gave it you're best, and it's time to move on.

Recently I've tried things like grabbing the girl by the hand and saying "will you marry me?" It went down quite well
two times. You get to act like you're serious and, with one girl, it made her feel she had to justify why she wouldn't marry me.

But each time I said this, I had already mentally moved on from the girl, but to my surprise this joke kind of re-sparked the conversation. Interesting.

Thanks
 

foggy

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Virgin101 said:
Recently I've tried things like grabbing the girl by the hand and saying "will you marry me?" It went down quite well.

If a girl is not responding to your normal game then it's useful to engage in polarizing behaviours, just like you have done here.

Chase has talked about the benefits of incorporating polarization into your game, and lists some examples (further down the thread) here:

viewtopic.php?f=6&t=10206.
 

NealIRC

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See when I talk to girls, I only talk about what my intent is.

So if I talk to a girl about X, I don't use it to imply talking about Y.

So with girls, I have my list of questions, and when I asked my last question, and get the final answer, then I take off.
 
you miss 100% of the shots you don't take

lostnumber

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NealIRC said:
So with girls, I have my list of questions, and when I asked my last question, and get the final answer, then I take off.

This doesn't sound like a very productive approach to getting girls to me...
 

NiceGuy110

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NealIRC said:
So with girls, I have my list of questions, and when I asked my last question, and get the final answer, then I take off.
Was that said with sarcasm?
 
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