Life for a guy who has his life together but skips marriage and LTRs?

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

I might have even posted this thread in the past and this point, it may even be a recurring thought.

The saying goes that men really peak in their 30s compared to women who peak earlier. Looking around in my circle and most guys I know, it seems like for most guys I know who are at their peak in their 20s or earlier or peaking in their 20s, they are usually in a relationship or on their way to being married. Now that I really think about it, most of the guys I know who are single past the age of 30 are single because they have to be, not because they want to be.

Now the main thought I have is that after a certain age, say past your late twenties, being single ends up being a setback for social life. Most people are in a marriage or an LTR on its way to marriage and people love to be around others they have a lot in common with. I could see guys who get older settling down to not feel like an outcast because it can be so tough to find others around your age who are single unless they have to be single (ugly, mentally deranged, etc.).

But I think about a situation where say you do have a guy who is single, in great shape, financially set and nothing off about his personality. What is life having in store for that guy?

For an extreme example and high ceiling, we have Dan Bilzerian and it has been discussed that he is a very rare breed. I am talking more along the lines of a guy who makes above average income, is good looking and a cool enough dude.

How does he navigate through the social landscape where most his age are married or what do guys like that typically do?

 

[Hue]

Re: How do you make friends while living the player life? What crowds are welcom

An easy solution would be simply don't bring up your adventures with women. I'm 22, but the people I'm best friends with at the bar I work at, and at a couple of the research labs I work at are 25-27. With the guys at the bar I'll only let really good stories leak out because I'm excited but even then I'll only tell 1-2 of them - you can still talk your run of the mill shit about pussy with dudes and joke sexually with girls. As for the others it would just be so out of context and those aren't the types of friends I am with them.

there is always this stigma of being immoral and I am still somehow running into a lot of guys who think it is immoral or wrong to use women for sex.

Then is this necessarily someone you want to hang out with regularly? If it is don't bring up your player lifestyle. As far as your friends in serious relationships, it generally isn't a fun conversation to talk about all this pussy you're swimming in for them because they're tied to one gal, even if they were once dogs themselves.

What kinds of groups and crowds are open to guys like us?

All of them lol if you know how to bring out your appropriate side(s) while still being you. Dancing, fitness, rock climbing, hiking, fishing, book clubs, music / instrument clubs, coffee shops, concert venues....

Personally, I don't seek out bible bangers or radical-anythings, though the other day I had a fun, open minded conversation on religion at my campus' plaza because some radical christian was spewing out anti-polygamy and enforced monogamy bullshit, so I stuck around to listen and converse about ideas with some other people surrounding him.


Hue

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Hue man thank you so much for answering the thread topic but I am editting it and putting a positive spin on it to make it a different thread instead of a whiny one.

 

[Hue]

All good.

Assuming you're saying people usually "peak" when dealing with woman past a certain age, and not with lifestyle, try reading this:

The Only 9 Options for Men as They Age - BlackDragon