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I like a lot of people struggle with approach anxiety during the day even though I've had success with it.
One thing that's helped me is rather then think.. Should I or shouldn't I approach is to switch the frame and say:
"What is the best way to approach her?"
This makes the approach a given that will happen and your mind will actually be surprisingly constructive.
Like it's dark right now so let me walk beside her just as we reach a street light so she can clearly see me and not feel intimated or I love that anklet that she has on I wonder what the story is behind it... It screams cool travels in the summer - I'll open with that.
You speaking to a girl you find attractive is a beautiful thing that should be encouraged... Let's focus on making it as enjoyable as an experience as it can be for both you and her.
Sweep her of her feet not mind cock-block yourself into inaction.
All The Best,
DWW
One thing that's helped me is rather then think.. Should I or shouldn't I approach is to switch the frame and say:
"What is the best way to approach her?"
This makes the approach a given that will happen and your mind will actually be surprisingly constructive.
Like it's dark right now so let me walk beside her just as we reach a street light so she can clearly see me and not feel intimated or I love that anklet that she has on I wonder what the story is behind it... It screams cool travels in the summer - I'll open with that.
You speaking to a girl you find attractive is a beautiful thing that should be encouraged... Let's focus on making it as enjoyable as an experience as it can be for both you and her.
Sweep her of her feet not mind cock-block yourself into inaction.
All The Best,
DWW
