Long distance ex contacts me for my birthday. What does it mean?

killerman

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So my ex girlfriend who lives in Malaysia (I live in UK) contacted me recently to wish me happy birthday. I'm wondering why though? Is it because she's just thinking about me? Or is it because she wants to get back together? It was me that finished the relationship about 4 years ago but she's messaged me a few times since. Only once did I initiate contact but all the others it has been her messaging me. Why though? Is she trying to get back with me? Or is it just a nice gesture?
 

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This is a heat check.
She is just feeling the temperature.

Two ways to handle it:
1) say thanks, ask how she is doing and end the conversation on a polite note
2) start a social > intimate > sexual sequence to spice her up for a future encounter

Long distance sucks, but it is always good to have another option (who knows when she's gonna be available again)
 
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