Hey guys,
Any tips of making her cum from PIV sex? I'm 6" length x 5" girth, no curve. The only way I've managed to do this is with an ex of mine where we'd have her use the vibrator while we had sex. I'm seeing a girl now that doesn't like using a vibrator during sex, so that's out of the question.
She's came before PIV with another guy a few times. I'm competitive as fuck and want to be the best lover she's ever had, so want to lock this down. And not only for her- I pretty never make girls cum PIV so I REALLY want to learn how to do so.
Of course, girls are all different, some being more orgasmic than others. For the sake of the rest of this post, I'm going to refer back to this one girl I'm seeing, we'll call her Tez. Tez is above average sensitive on her body and her clit can take a beating, and she's fairly orgasmic.
So I'm going to break down everything I do, and hope someone is able to find bottlenecks and help me troubleshoot here. At the very least if you're someone less experienced, you may learn a thing or two as well from reading this.
SIDE QUESTION: Does the difficulty of having a girl orgasm go up or down the familiar she becomes with you (the more you've had sex with her and seen her, even more so in an LTR)? I may be projecting here, but the longer I know a girl that I've been seeing, the less novelty there is which means she turns me on less than she use to.
I'm going to break it down into 3 sections below:
A. This is the way my sex generally goes:
1. I'm a very sensual and sensory guy who loves rough sex. Sex with Tez is a little different each time, sometimes slow, sometimes fast. sometimes rough.
2. I've got a few standard "toys" in my room- a vibrator, blindfold, handcuffs, butt plug, coconut oil which doubles as lube, and door cuffs (those things that you can swing over the top of the door so that her hands are in the air while she's against the door)
3. 70% of my sex is usually missionary (sometimes adapted, sometimes not) and doggy style. The other 30% is her riding me, from the side, on a chair, in public, etc.
4. I'm very experimental with sex- I like novelty so I'm always trying different angles, pressures, toys, speeds, and methods on Tez.
5. I've got eating pussy down pretty well with Tez. I'll make her have clitoral orgasms by eating her out 2-3 times in a night. She's pretty sensitive and orgasmic, so it's fairly easy to make her cum.
B. These are some of the PHYSICAL/TECHNICAL things that I've done in the bedroom to help me stand out and also add to DEVI from Sex God Method (Dominance, Emotion, Variety, Immersion). I don't use all of these at once together, but do a number of these in any given night:
1. Giving massages with coconut oil
2. Using things like handcuffs, butt plugs and other toys
3. Slow and fast kissing all over the body
4. Passionate, sloppy, tongue in deep wet kisses
5. Spitting, choking, slapping, ass grabbing. (different pressures for different girls- Tez can take a little more of a beating than your average girl)
6. Hot and cold- ice cubes, licking her neck and blowing, pouring water or wine on the body, heating up coconut oil
7. Blindfolding for visual sensory deprivation
8. Having Tez stand in the middle of the bedroom while I slowly undress her
9. Making out with her pussy while I eat her out
10. Slapping her ass with my belt once in a while
11. Hair grabbing / pulling
12. Being vocal with growls and grunts, calling her "my little whore", "my little slut", making her repeat things that I say like "say daddy owns your little pussy", and saying things like "I'm going to rip you apart" or "your little pussy is all mine"
13. Throwing her around the bed and just being over all dominant
14. Making foreplay last at least 15-30 minutes at a time
15. Doing this thing where I go half-in 9 times then deep 1 time, then 8 times half-in and 1 deep, and 7 half-in, and 1 deep, so on until I keep going in deep each time.
16. Brushing the tiny hairs all along her body with soft touches.
17. Alternating kisses all over her erogenous zones (for Tez, it's her neck and the side of her hips)
18. Alternating while fucking her by pressing my body fully on her with skin to skin contact and then pressing off so all she feels is my dick and my legs brushing against hers.
C. These are some of the EMOTIONAL/SOFTER things that I've done in the bedroom to help me stand out and also add to DEVI from Sex God Method (Dominance, Emotion, Variety, Immersion).
1. Alternating between rough and soft/sensual. I might go from choking/spitting on her and slapping her around to going slower and kissing her on the cheek and making out with her
2. Grabbing the back of her head and telling her to look me in the eyes while I fuck her
3. Telling her she's amazing, or she's beautiful while we have sex
4. Make her say things like "I am amazing" or "I am beautiful" while we have sex
5. Done this thing once where we stood in the middle of the room and just caressed each other naked with the music- it was really in the moment but felt deep.
6, Have slower, softer sex once in a while thats all about the touches, and slower thrusts
PROBLEMS/ POSSIBLE OBSTACLES:
1. I've already tried adapted missionary and have decent rhythm, I swear I can't make it work for me. It'll feel great for her but no orgasms. The longest I've gone doing this is probably right around 10 minutes.
2. I switch positions quite frequently. I can go missionary for probably 10-15 minutes max usually before I get too tired or bored. I alternate between adapted missionary and other forms of missionary maybe a bit too much which messes up my rhythm.
3. Rhythm is decent but while doing adapted missionary, I think of having to do so many other things at once like being vocal, going harder, listening to the bed squeaks, trying not to cum, and listening to her moans- these distractions mess up my rhythm sometimes.
4. Dick isn't long enough to touch her uterus
5. I am 15 pounds overweight and smoke cigarettes- although my stamina is above average (I can keep going and going), I tire myself out easily when thrusting continuously for long periods of time (usually more than 10 minutes)
6. I never know if I'm stimulating her clit while I'm fucking her. I can't seem to figure out how to stimulate her clit consistently while thrusting into her.
7. I don't know much about upping the emotion part in DEVI (sex god method) in sex.
8. I don't do much set up outside the bedroom prior to sex. I don't sext, or build up much anticipation prior to foreplay.
SO this is literally ALL I can think of at the moment. I would literally kill to learn how to make a girl cum PIV, and consistently. Even better if vaginal orgasms are taking place. Anyone have any ideas / the secret sauce to giving PIV orgasms? Anything you can tell me to make sure I do this consistently? Anything that I should be doing differently/ improve at? I fucking need to know.
Thanks brothers as always
Any tips of making her cum from PIV sex? I'm 6" length x 5" girth, no curve. The only way I've managed to do this is with an ex of mine where we'd have her use the vibrator while we had sex. I'm seeing a girl now that doesn't like using a vibrator during sex, so that's out of the question.
She's came before PIV with another guy a few times. I'm competitive as fuck and want to be the best lover she's ever had, so want to lock this down. And not only for her- I pretty never make girls cum PIV so I REALLY want to learn how to do so.
Of course, girls are all different, some being more orgasmic than others. For the sake of the rest of this post, I'm going to refer back to this one girl I'm seeing, we'll call her Tez. Tez is above average sensitive on her body and her clit can take a beating, and she's fairly orgasmic.
So I'm going to break down everything I do, and hope someone is able to find bottlenecks and help me troubleshoot here. At the very least if you're someone less experienced, you may learn a thing or two as well from reading this.
SIDE QUESTION: Does the difficulty of having a girl orgasm go up or down the familiar she becomes with you (the more you've had sex with her and seen her, even more so in an LTR)? I may be projecting here, but the longer I know a girl that I've been seeing, the less novelty there is which means she turns me on less than she use to.
I'm going to break it down into 3 sections below:
A. This is the way my sex generally goes:
1. I'm a very sensual and sensory guy who loves rough sex. Sex with Tez is a little different each time, sometimes slow, sometimes fast. sometimes rough.
2. I've got a few standard "toys" in my room- a vibrator, blindfold, handcuffs, butt plug, coconut oil which doubles as lube, and door cuffs (those things that you can swing over the top of the door so that her hands are in the air while she's against the door)
3. 70% of my sex is usually missionary (sometimes adapted, sometimes not) and doggy style. The other 30% is her riding me, from the side, on a chair, in public, etc.
4. I'm very experimental with sex- I like novelty so I'm always trying different angles, pressures, toys, speeds, and methods on Tez.
5. I've got eating pussy down pretty well with Tez. I'll make her have clitoral orgasms by eating her out 2-3 times in a night. She's pretty sensitive and orgasmic, so it's fairly easy to make her cum.
B. These are some of the PHYSICAL/TECHNICAL things that I've done in the bedroom to help me stand out and also add to DEVI from Sex God Method (Dominance, Emotion, Variety, Immersion). I don't use all of these at once together, but do a number of these in any given night:
1. Giving massages with coconut oil
2. Using things like handcuffs, butt plugs and other toys
3. Slow and fast kissing all over the body
4. Passionate, sloppy, tongue in deep wet kisses
5. Spitting, choking, slapping, ass grabbing. (different pressures for different girls- Tez can take a little more of a beating than your average girl)
6. Hot and cold- ice cubes, licking her neck and blowing, pouring water or wine on the body, heating up coconut oil
7. Blindfolding for visual sensory deprivation
8. Having Tez stand in the middle of the bedroom while I slowly undress her
9. Making out with her pussy while I eat her out
10. Slapping her ass with my belt once in a while
11. Hair grabbing / pulling
12. Being vocal with growls and grunts, calling her "my little whore", "my little slut", making her repeat things that I say like "say daddy owns your little pussy", and saying things like "I'm going to rip you apart" or "your little pussy is all mine"
13. Throwing her around the bed and just being over all dominant
14. Making foreplay last at least 15-30 minutes at a time
15. Doing this thing where I go half-in 9 times then deep 1 time, then 8 times half-in and 1 deep, and 7 half-in, and 1 deep, so on until I keep going in deep each time.
16. Brushing the tiny hairs all along her body with soft touches.
17. Alternating kisses all over her erogenous zones (for Tez, it's her neck and the side of her hips)
18. Alternating while fucking her by pressing my body fully on her with skin to skin contact and then pressing off so all she feels is my dick and my legs brushing against hers.
C. These are some of the EMOTIONAL/SOFTER things that I've done in the bedroom to help me stand out and also add to DEVI from Sex God Method (Dominance, Emotion, Variety, Immersion).
1. Alternating between rough and soft/sensual. I might go from choking/spitting on her and slapping her around to going slower and kissing her on the cheek and making out with her
2. Grabbing the back of her head and telling her to look me in the eyes while I fuck her
3. Telling her she's amazing, or she's beautiful while we have sex
4. Make her say things like "I am amazing" or "I am beautiful" while we have sex
5. Done this thing once where we stood in the middle of the room and just caressed each other naked with the music- it was really in the moment but felt deep.
6, Have slower, softer sex once in a while thats all about the touches, and slower thrusts
PROBLEMS/ POSSIBLE OBSTACLES:
1. I've already tried adapted missionary and have decent rhythm, I swear I can't make it work for me. It'll feel great for her but no orgasms. The longest I've gone doing this is probably right around 10 minutes.
2. I switch positions quite frequently. I can go missionary for probably 10-15 minutes max usually before I get too tired or bored. I alternate between adapted missionary and other forms of missionary maybe a bit too much which messes up my rhythm.
3. Rhythm is decent but while doing adapted missionary, I think of having to do so many other things at once like being vocal, going harder, listening to the bed squeaks, trying not to cum, and listening to her moans- these distractions mess up my rhythm sometimes.
4. Dick isn't long enough to touch her uterus
5. I am 15 pounds overweight and smoke cigarettes- although my stamina is above average (I can keep going and going), I tire myself out easily when thrusting continuously for long periods of time (usually more than 10 minutes)
6. I never know if I'm stimulating her clit while I'm fucking her. I can't seem to figure out how to stimulate her clit consistently while thrusting into her.
7. I don't know much about upping the emotion part in DEVI (sex god method) in sex.
8. I don't do much set up outside the bedroom prior to sex. I don't sext, or build up much anticipation prior to foreplay.
SO this is literally ALL I can think of at the moment. I would literally kill to learn how to make a girl cum PIV, and consistently. Even better if vaginal orgasms are taking place. Anyone have any ideas / the secret sauce to giving PIV orgasms? Anything you can tell me to make sure I do this consistently? Anything that I should be doing differently/ improve at? I fucking need to know.
Thanks brothers as always
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