ZacAdam said:
MisterX,
Also, i think this is why women will occasionally press the "nuke button". The "nuke button" is where she realize she can't get you, so she might as well try to destroy everything. I have learnt to survive such circumstances. The fundamental principle is that all women look for a strong men. So they will disregard even their friends. Pretty ridiculous but i seen it happen where women press the "nuke button" and i disregard it. Her friends look for me without her acknowledgement or she seeing them.
Anyway, I do feel bad a little that women have nothing else except beauty, although they can supercharge personality. That's the next best asset.
Zac
Zac,
Yeah it's kinda sad when a girls is really pretty and she has no personality. And if you're a real beginner it might not even bother you much - she's hot, you'd date her for a while. But if you have options you're like "uuumm NO" cause even sex is a lot better with a girl you can connect with. Not like fall in love and such but at least have things in common and feel that connection like "yeah we're pretty alike". And for example I'd prefer a normally cute girl that I have lots in common and great chemistry than the hottest girl on the planet that I have zero connection with. Even for just sex. Cause the pleasure from sex is a very large part mental not just physical enjoyment.
But there's one other thing that to different guys a personality is a different thing. There might be guys who actually really like girls who are only interested in clothes, shoes, going shopping and watching Honey Boo Boo.. Or another might be into girls who are really into sports, or sophisticated girls that know a lot about art and culture, etc.
For example I really like those cute nerdy/geeky/book wormy kinds of girls. That are shy and excited. Cause no matter how much going to the gym, sexy clothes, good fundamentals, seducing, I add I still am that guy. The guy that reads lots of manga(I just read the latest chapter of Tokyo Ghoul: RE, and damn that suspense is killing me) and watch anime. Though I might be more into the more brutal (killing everyone in brutal ways) kind of manga/anime it's still nerdy/geeky hobby.
I love science and read every day like crazy to learn new things(mostly about new technology, quantum physics, and new finds in human biology/neuroscience). I love technology and even filed for a few patents (fingers crossed I get them).
So for me a girl that is into those things and is cute is far far more valuable than just a super hot girl that is not interested in those things. And the sex will be better with my type of girl. Plus I get really turned on by having an innocent, inexperienced girl and "corrupting" her by making her my dirty little sex slave.