Long-Term  Menopause ... 57M with 56F ... how to deal with sex issues?

enigma

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Hot GF has amazing body especially for 56F.
Sex was great as menopause begun.
Post menopause sex is disaster.
Intercourse is painful for her.
Libido has hit the floor.
Still takes great care of herself, looks great.

Need lessons learned from those of you that have made this situation better, so that you may stay together, rather than starting over with much younger woman.

I have found it easy to date women 15 years younger, so perhaps I am a fool to date 56F.
She is just so hot and interesting.
 

Seppuku

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hey enigma,

I'm 49 and I think I was the oldest on these boards, until today. Here you have a few guys in their 40s and late 30s, and the vast majority in their 20s.

The oldest woman I had was probably early 40 so I do not have direct experience with menopaused women. So not sure how to help you with this?

But for the sexual part, I go shamelessly for girls in their 20s. Last month I got a few 21 and 23 yo in bed. No sex issue whatsoever.

Don't hesitate to go younger if you have the chance!

Seppuku
 
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