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BIG MERRY CHRISTMAS GUYS! We are improving ourselves and showing women a good time giving them that javier bardem Vicky cristina barcelona romance some women are dreaming of as i see it.
I need some direction guys...
Moved to Houston in October, 4th biggest city in the US,
I came with hope and a bit of game I wanted to build upon, feeling friendly and social. I was getting somewhere and started consistently getting to nice hook points with attractive biddy's all the time. And feeling proud of myself that they would show interest. I began to feel like that guy who would be across the room with all the girls and was like "their guy" when I was over by myself with the other guys just waiting for the next class or eating alone. It was nice to feel like women across the board were starting to take me in as a certain type of guy they liked
so I have been learning and applying dating tech
then I got a job in the food service as a server. And it felt like high school. People would talk crap, lie, just talk negatively about everyone and spit venom ( or be very sexually verbally direct with female co workers and then when I would do the same people would act weird (so I figured its not for me and just keep it about money now) for no reason I could see. It just made me distrust the world and feel very naive again. I felt like a fool.
It made me pull back from people and look at everyone with a very questioning eye.
Now I see how I was a "country fool" new to the big city.
I want to get back to that happy optimistic place where I can see people positively. Im also in a focus period of building myself financially so IM not doing much with friend hang outs right now, but do chat a little bit so i have some human interaction going on.
ALL THE FRIENDS I ATTRACT ARE kind of unproductive stoners or use drugs or just aren't taking care of their life. Some of them look up to me like I am doing good but i really in a building stage myself.
THEN THE COOL TOGETHER AND ATTRACTIVE PEOPLE, they seem to king of look at me like I am OK but there's something missing and they already have their friends.
SO I feel like I am in between and need to improve myself with fitness style vibe energy money social skills and all the above so I will be accepted around naturals and more together type of people who have their game down more and have been dating and socializing for years.
I know i will get there just not sure exactly what to do. But i believe in myself and everyone who comes on these forums with good motives to become awesome men.
WHO GETS WHAT I AM TALING ABOUT?????
I need some direction guys...
Moved to Houston in October, 4th biggest city in the US,
I came with hope and a bit of game I wanted to build upon, feeling friendly and social. I was getting somewhere and started consistently getting to nice hook points with attractive biddy's all the time. And feeling proud of myself that they would show interest. I began to feel like that guy who would be across the room with all the girls and was like "their guy" when I was over by myself with the other guys just waiting for the next class or eating alone. It was nice to feel like women across the board were starting to take me in as a certain type of guy they liked
so I have been learning and applying dating tech
then I got a job in the food service as a server. And it felt like high school. People would talk crap, lie, just talk negatively about everyone and spit venom ( or be very sexually verbally direct with female co workers and then when I would do the same people would act weird (so I figured its not for me and just keep it about money now) for no reason I could see. It just made me distrust the world and feel very naive again. I felt like a fool.
It made me pull back from people and look at everyone with a very questioning eye.
Now I see how I was a "country fool" new to the big city.
I want to get back to that happy optimistic place where I can see people positively. Im also in a focus period of building myself financially so IM not doing much with friend hang outs right now, but do chat a little bit so i have some human interaction going on.
ALL THE FRIENDS I ATTRACT ARE kind of unproductive stoners or use drugs or just aren't taking care of their life. Some of them look up to me like I am doing good but i really in a building stage myself.
THEN THE COOL TOGETHER AND ATTRACTIVE PEOPLE, they seem to king of look at me like I am OK but there's something missing and they already have their friends.
SO I feel like I am in between and need to improve myself with fitness style vibe energy money social skills and all the above so I will be accepted around naturals and more together type of people who have their game down more and have been dating and socializing for years.
I know i will get there just not sure exactly what to do. But i believe in myself and everyone who comes on these forums with good motives to become awesome men.
WHO GETS WHAT I AM TALING ABOUT?????
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