So i met this super attractive girl who is a hostess in a trendy bar. I can tell she was into me because:
-She asked loads of questions
-Kept putting her hair behind her ear
-When I proposed to meet her and asked when she was free she told me like 3 alternative dates (non suited me, my week is very busy)
-Before we said goodbye, we shook hands and I held her hand for like 10 seconds while we saying the final words.
This was some 10 days ago.
I texted her 3 days later, proposing to meet on that weekend, she replied 5 mins later saying why she couldn't make it this weekend, but proposed to meet next week (this week), she said "no problems the next week",
so I replied "cool, how about next Saturday then", I was setting the date well in advance, but since she was so available, why not? set it in stone straight away. She didn't reply till the next day. Her reply was "Sorry for not replying yesterday, was busy. Saturday can't do, but perhaps Friday, I will let you know closer to the weekend" (this weekend). I replied "Cool let's talk closer to the weekend then"
This message was last friday.
So, do I wait or do I text her tomorrow? I mean she was def into me, but is this some sort of shit test to see if I go chasing her? Or is it the other way around and she actually wants me to take the lead and go for it?
viewtopic.php?f=3&t=16305 in this post, the idea is that the guy doesn't give her the lead by saying her something like " then let me know " because it gives away his lead of the interaction. So since reading this post, I always say something like "lets talk bla bla, so both of us can re-engage in conversation without giving up the lead.
What is your take here? Time is ticking and attraction has an expiry date!..
-She asked loads of questions
-Kept putting her hair behind her ear
-When I proposed to meet her and asked when she was free she told me like 3 alternative dates (non suited me, my week is very busy)
-Before we said goodbye, we shook hands and I held her hand for like 10 seconds while we saying the final words.
This was some 10 days ago.
I texted her 3 days later, proposing to meet on that weekend, she replied 5 mins later saying why she couldn't make it this weekend, but proposed to meet next week (this week), she said "no problems the next week",
so I replied "cool, how about next Saturday then", I was setting the date well in advance, but since she was so available, why not? set it in stone straight away. She didn't reply till the next day. Her reply was "Sorry for not replying yesterday, was busy. Saturday can't do, but perhaps Friday, I will let you know closer to the weekend" (this weekend). I replied "Cool let's talk closer to the weekend then"
This message was last friday.
So, do I wait or do I text her tomorrow? I mean she was def into me, but is this some sort of shit test to see if I go chasing her? Or is it the other way around and she actually wants me to take the lead and go for it?
viewtopic.php?f=3&t=16305 in this post, the idea is that the guy doesn't give her the lead by saying her something like " then let me know " because it gives away his lead of the interaction. So since reading this post, I always say something like "lets talk bla bla, so both of us can re-engage in conversation without giving up the lead.
What is your take here? Time is ticking and attraction has an expiry date!..
" and then just text her again a few days later. or if she does offer an alternative then you have another date.