Moving fast v being a challenge

[BMD]

So I've been reflecting on this for a while now and would love some opinions

Essentially I've been adopting the moving fast mantra for a few months now with girls at college (I'm 18 so younger women demographic). It's definitely been paying off in terms of setting up dates, but there have been some girls who I felt I've lost my intrigue with by pretty much asking them out soon into our overall interactions. I suppose I'm looking for some guidance on detecting which girls would respond well to me being more a challenge and for which ones this would be overkill and/or damaging to the seduction.

Thanks bros

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[razir110]

Honestly I am around older women, but by moving fast you WILL lose some girls however you will get many more. So it's worth the "loss"

It's hard to detect which girl want what, but honestly I think that when you assume you lost a date because you moved too fast, that girl wasn't that much into you in the first place. Or she is undecided and "needs time" so ones again, not something worth investing yourself into. Moving fast will essentially weed out all the not-so-interested girls around you and will prevent you from falling into swamps of endless dates, dinners, message exchanges that lead nowhere.

Don't forget that the girl that wants you to move slower may take months to decide and you will be missing out opportunities. Plus she may end up losing interest and you falling into friend-zone, because the more you get to know her without sleeping with her, the less sexual tension there is between you, so the solution here is to move fast anyways.

Perhaps take A BIT less time with people from your social circle. But never fall into slow-moving guy territory.

Plus, it's not your concern to be wondering what she wants. There is no way to know that. The only correct way for you as a man is to move on girls with the clear intention to bed them, with no shame about it. If she doesn't like it, it's her issue and not yours, there is nothing wrong with your approach, you simply don't match her expectations of a Mr. nice guy (which you aren't)

About the being a challenge part, by moving fast on women you will become a challenge for other girls. Playing hard to get and being a challenge are different things. So by moving fast you will get 2 in 1. By playing hard to get you will miss out a lot and not end up being a challenge in the end.

 

[BMD]

razir110,

Thanks a lot man! Appreciate the input

Much of the ambiguity in my head has been due to the age demographic. Obviously girls in the 18-21 btacket are sexually open on the whole , but I've been wondering if the same pacing of the seduction for an older woman applies here too and whether their shortage of experience affects this

On the being a challenge part I suppose the abundance I'm aiming to build up will translate into my vibe around other girls, since I seldom have a direct opportunity to showcase pre-selection in daily uni life.

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