Multiple AI's not receptive, gives more AI's?

[Fluxcapacitor]

Sup dude's hope ya can help me get my head around this one. This happened 3 times with 3 different girls last night. (Night game, night club) got an AI, approached, not receptive/run away, gave more AI's? (Below main confusing example)

Main interaction: I seen this really hot girl near me on the dancefloor. Later on someone bumped into me, I looked over ma shoulder an it was her (who had also looked over her shoulder). A would have took it as a sign of interest but she looked very unimpressed an annoyed so I left it as uninterested. A little later we're more side on an we make eye contact an her body language seemed open, I took her hand (she complied) we danced a little, I twirled her. She twirled then ran off two yards away and hugged her friend but was looking back at me. I let it go. She then kept looking over making eye contact an bumping back into me. She went to the little girls room with her friend so me an my mate went to another room.

We bumped into them again later on on the dancefloor where she kept bumping into me. Even one of my mates who's socially clueless realised she was interested an told me (as if a didn't notice). Again we made eye contact, I took her hand and her friend hit my arm off her, got between us an dragged her away.

A little later she was looking at me again, bumped into me. I approached from the far side from her friend so stop the intersection. She was really awkward an shy an possibly not that receptive. Her friend was looking to grab her again so a let it go, it was the end of the night an was to much a battle. A was confused why ya would give so many AI's if ya not interested. Attention/validation seeking is ma only thoughts on it, any other ideas dude's?

 

[Hue]

Many girls at the club are always going to be attention seeking, flirting for flirting's sake, and handing out AI's so guys chase them. This is especially the case in loud, high volume venues where a ton of people are dancing. It's part of night game and eventually you get a better eye for who is worth approaching (time and effort investment) and who is not. This takes lots of repetition and practice.


In regard to your specific situation, it sounds like you actually handled it decently well. Your girl eventually sent some AI's your way, and you started to engage with them. Her friend decided to pull her away after some time in the bathroom. There could be a number of things going on here. Maybe the friend wanted some dick too. Maybe your girl had a boyfriend and the friend was trying to "help" her.

A little later she was looking at me again, bumped into me. I approached from the far side from her friend so stop the intersection. She was really awkward an shy an possibly not that receptive. Her friend was looking to grab her again so a let it go, it was the end of the night an was to much a battle.

Was she being shy? Or submissive? Hard to tell from what you wrote.

With the friend still an issue, this might have been an opportunity for you to talk with her and befriend her. A lot of times, you have to put in some work to get a "pass" from the friend if she's hard rejecting you.

Or, find her a guy so she stops cock blocking. A lot of times girls cock block because they want dick too and don't want to send their friend away with some guy while they go home alone.


Hue

 

[DarkKnight]

Hey Flux, I think Hue strikes a pretty good point. Now I am not nearly as experienced as that him, but I recall from somewhere on the board or one of the articles that a distinction could be made between real interest or attention whoring. It went as the following: If by the action it seems like the girl loses power: it is probably real interest, however if it comes from a dominant place: it is probably attention whoring, trying to turn you into an orbitor.

 

[Overdoze]

continued ais like that are an invite to engage. Theres no choding you up from the get go. thats something girls does to guys that are chodes over time that circle her like dogs. Or if you initially bounce of her like a chode. She could "test" you but i dont get the sense thats what shes doing.

how you engage determines how it goes

how you engage sets up the social frame between you

i would just play some "ais" back to her, Or what we call PAIMAI. She is obvious vs subtle which gives you cues to the fact that shes more interested in you. despite that her attempts appear a lil clumsy(girls are worse than us many times here!!) Like mirror her level of forward going. ofc. it depends on her vibe and what my sexual intuition would tell me about her level of readyness (some you can go make out with right away).

play w, her a lil. eg looking at her w a look like you now something funny about her. or putting out your tounge like a brat. or just opening your body language towards her. each sets a different roll in motion with grades of engagement. Or playfully dance while keeping distance creating a connect of fun. Or hit her w sexual tension. SOOOOO much to do.

what you choose depends on what she vibes. Success of it will depend if it resonates/harmonates her state at the moment.

remember that girls are pumped/stimulated by the environment and wears "club faces". Superficial masks created by the environment and their group. But its an overwrite of her real being which you can see through the masks and connect with. when you get good

her friend is just a cockblock/wild card. Aka not related to the girls wants. Girls get in their friends ways all the time. Befriend or create better opportunities for interaction. Being patient while proactively creating moments and opportunities is an art in seduction.

 

[Fluxcapacitor]

Hue dude! Thanks for the reply man. Now ya have asked whether she was shy or submissive her behaviour was submissive. But a got a feeling that she didn't know what to do, panicked an was looking to eject. Possibly to much tension? Which is why I stated she was really hot. This behaviour a usually see with girls that aren't as hot or low self esteem.

A couldn't get a pass from her friend, her shields were so high up she wasn't having any of it. I was out with a mate that likes the slightly bigger girls (which she was) an he couldn't get anywhere. Not even having a guy for her was doing anything. She really had her guard up.

DarkKnight dude! She wasn't coming from a dominant place an would have lost power being so obvious with her AIs. It seemed like real interest up until a approached an then it wasn't receptive for her to run to her friend the first time. Usually attention seeking will stop when they bite off more than they can chew.

Overdoze dude! A don't think she was choding me up here an think she was interested but was like a dog chasing cars. Didn't know what to do with it when she caught one! :')

I was patient making her try harder an sending AIs back rather than just jumping on a little sign of interest but was running out of time on the last approach where she seemed shy. It wasn't a perfectly calibrated approach but she was bumping into me an looking at me for ages, the last song played so it was a either approach or let it go. A went for it!