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My view on LMR

suspicious5

Space Monkey
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is that you are essentially ego-depleting the girl into having sex with you. Your persistence eventually causes her to give in, but she's not necessarily more interested in fucking than she was 10 minutes ago. There's some sexual interest, otherwise she'd not have gone home with you. She's basically lukewarm on the whole thing and having you "earn it."

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Chrance

Cro-Magnon Man
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There are a variety of reasons why she will not have sex with you, not necessarily due to lack of sexual interest.

Let’s say the kings daughter was unzipping your pants about to suck your cock and you knew if she did you will be beheaded. How would you feel in that unzipping moment? Imagine very vividly getting taken to a guillotine, all your dreams taken from you, your mother crying in the audience. Would it be a mere blowjob then? I guarantee you’d be thinking about a lot more than sexual satisfaction and brag rights. But the degree of sexual attraction you had for this woman would remain the same, beheading or not.

There is more that motivates a person beyond sex. If you know a persons motives and desires you can control their behavior through true or false information (ie lying)

In the case of LMR simply arousing a girl through necking her is enough to alter her desires so that fucking can happen. In worse cases she doesn’t want to deal with the pain of regret (which she may have experienced before) so that desire/fear is a counter motive to her arousal, just like your beheading by the king is a counter motive to your desire to get blown. If you chose a blowjob over your execution, you just revealed yourself to be an idiot so frankly IMO you would deserve to die for the betterment of the species lmao

So busting LMR involves dealing with her counter motives to sex, so simply chilling out for a few minutes can do the trick, or just being assertive, or spending more time with her to build more comfort. There are a bunch of ways. You can see that afterwards (after banging) whatever reasons or emotions held her back are no longer present or are greatly diminished, such that her arousal of you takes a different light. From here the woman’s sexual interest, which was previously a pain in the ass, is now able to flourish, so she won’t necessarily see you the way she did before. If you make her regret the sex through pregnancy, social repercussions or bad sex then this won’t be the case.

I’ve only busted LMR on three occasions so far, so a lot of the tricks I’m not very good at doing. But what your doing isn’t all too different from what you’ve been doing the entire pickup process - you are getting around all the mental bullshit that’s holding her back.

@Teevster and @Velasco have done a lot of work on subduing the girls hang ups to sex. You can search “Sex Talk” and find a lot of material to use or get ideas from.

On one occasion i dealt with LMR, I pulled the girl back to her place and it took me till 7:00am to bang. Afterwards I didn’t do a good job calming her fears of STDs (which I’ve never had before) so subsequent dates were a pain. Her fear of STDs was the counter motive to her arousal.

On another occasion I had some LMR which I busted through just chilling out and talking about life for an hour or so then going back at it, which through several repetitions finally resulted in the bang. The subsequent times we hanged out she was immediately more bubbly, clingy, etc. The same woman but expressing herself differently now that circumstances had changed.

Also keep in mind that as you are fucking a girl, a lot of things that were on her mind are now gone out the window. Woosh! Gone! Slapping and choking reinforce this. Although I don’t condone abuse, it is true that simply slapping a woman in the face or ass can jar her mind so that whatever she was thinking about has now altered or disappeared.

Literally last week on a date with a girl as she was talking about something I decided to bend her over and slap her ass. I slapped her maybe five times. Then I let her up. I asked her to continue with whatever she was talking about. She completely forgot. Out the window my man

Counter motives exist everywhere throughout life. Laws are counter motives to behavior that can destroy a nation. The corona virus is a counter motive to your Chinese vacation plans . The list is endless.
 
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suspicious5

Space Monkey
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On one occasion i dealt with LMR, I pulled the girl back to her place and it took me till 7:00am to bang. Afterwards I didn’t do a good job calming her fears of STDs (which I’ve never had before) so subsequent dates were a pain. Her fear of STDs was the counter motive to her arousal.

That's kind of funny. If you had stds, most likely she would have already caught it the first go around. Too late then. Did you come off as a nasty dude to her?

So busting LMR involves dealing with her counter motives to sex, so simply chilling out for a few minutes can do the trick, or just being assertive, or spending more time with her to build more comfort. There are a bunch of ways. You can see that afterwards (after banging) whatever reasons or emotions held her back are no longer present or are greatly diminished, such that her arousal of you takes a different light. From here the woman’s sexual interest, which was previously a pain in the ass, is now able to flourish, so she won’t necessarily see you the way she did before. If you make her regret the sex through pregnancy, social repercussions or bad sex then this won’t be the case.

There's quite a skill involved in dealing with women's objections. When women make me work for it, most of the time I lose vast interest. I don't want to put more effort in unless it's adequately rewarded. This works pretty well when I'm trying to escalate and I've been persistent. When I back off, it creates a space for her to fill by chasing, after she notices I stopped trying to make things happen temporarily.
 
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