1) Your walk around the bar solo and approach direct “I thought you were cute and I’d kick
myself if I didn’t come say hi” opener that works on the drunk 7s at the bar is probably stupid
shit that’s going to 1) get you blown out right away and 2) put the ball in her court to lead the
conversation and you’re probably going to end up talking about stupid shit and getting
disqualified by her “psycho-social symbolism” shit. You’re just forcing her to run her standard
shit on you.
2) Go indirect. Demonstrate High Value in her vicinity instead of directly TO her so that she’s
curious about you. That means charm other people in the room and let her see you doing so. If
she isn’t biting, keep DHV’ing. You can DHV *FOREVER*. If Brad Pitt or Clooney or whoever’s
popular with the kids these days was in the room in tennis shoes and a t-shirt, would she want
to fuck him? Yes, because she knows he’s high-value. So accepting that means you have to
accept that IF SHE THINKS YOUR VALUE IS HIGH ENOUGH SHE WILL WANT TO FUCK YOU.
3) How do we DHV in a high-end social scene to seem LIKE Brad Pitt in that evening? Start with
dudes, because dudes are always friendly and you should be able to chat up dudes and joke
around with them about shit and get them laughing and loving you. I usually start by
complimenting their suits and shit saying fuck I should’ve dressed up you guys are gonna get all
the girls tonight I’m gonna be a virgin forever etc. This is like, basic social skills shit. Now you’re
in with a group of dudes so you’re not some loner there.
4) If it’s a mixer enviro where people don’t all know eachother yet, open girls that pass by and
throw them at your buddies (“HEY. Stop, you need to meet my buddy, Buddy this is Random
Girl Name, Random Girl Name this is Buddy.”) Doesn’t matter if they get the girl or not they will
love that you just threw pussy at them and gave them a chance.
5) If they all know eachother already because it’s a clique enviro then just focus on befriending
the dudes and you’ll naturally meet the girls through them and can focus on running MM group
theory when that happens.
6) If all the dudes are assholes for some reason because you’re dressed like shit (I’m too poor to
afford rich clothes/shoes lol and people who can afford that stuff can tell lol), befriend the staff.
They’re literally PAID to be friendly to you and they’re either cool handsome dudes or hot
chicks, either way joking around with them gets you social proof. Use that blink of social proof
to open whatever group (a group is better than a solo girl, in a group at least ONE of them will
be cool with you and like you, VS a solo girl where she may just shoot you down or her group
comes to protect her, so ideally you want to order your drink beside the big group doing shots,
sometimes they’ll even include you in the group shot because they have money and love you
because you made one clever comment and they want everyone to have fun) is beside you
when you order that drink and start building shit from there.
7) Now you’ve got SOME kind of social proof. From here standard MM you merge sets forward,
introduce groups to eachother, be the social connector. None of this requires saying “I work at
McDonald’s and I’m too poor and uneducated to be here”, you’re just running light social game
spreading value to everyone so that everyone has a fun time.
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