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Hi. I'm an unattractive guy. For the past 4 or so years I've had no good results with women. I've tried dating apps using professional photographers. I've tried dressing well and using both daygame and nightgame. I know why now. As Chase said, a woman is interested or she isn't and she knows that as soon as she meets you. I'm not competitive at all in my looks and that's why I'm internally turned down as soon as I greet a woman. I only get dates by using dating apps and being a bit lucky that the woman follows through and schedules a date with me. What I've found over these years is that I do have a chance with some women
-curvier women, and usually foreign
-women who find me interesting as a person but don't want to do anything physical until after marriage.
I'm through with wondering why I don't attract women or why things have gone so badly for me. You people on GC have great information available for free and totally comprehensive premium services. The material works very well but it just hasn't for me. I'm asking this question because I'm sure that if I keep going this year I'll find a woman from one of the above two categories and have a chance to progress things with her. My question is this.... should I settle for it when it happens? I wasn't into curvy women because I don't find them so attractive, and even looking at personality I'm obsessive about health and fitness, but most curvy women are not. For the second group, I always imagined that I'd just be able to get a 'standard' or 'traditional' relationship and progress to marriage and kids. So every time I find a woman like this, I worry about what kind of foundation the marriage would have, whether I'd be happy being in a relationship from meeting to marriage that I'm not 100% into and whether any woman who says that to me has that as a hard and fast rule or if it's just for me. So, experienced guys, should a man be settling if he wants to have a family or does it usually lead to ruin that's worse than staying single for life?
-curvier women, and usually foreign
-women who find me interesting as a person but don't want to do anything physical until after marriage.
I'm through with wondering why I don't attract women or why things have gone so badly for me. You people on GC have great information available for free and totally comprehensive premium services. The material works very well but it just hasn't for me. I'm asking this question because I'm sure that if I keep going this year I'll find a woman from one of the above two categories and have a chance to progress things with her. My question is this.... should I settle for it when it happens? I wasn't into curvy women because I don't find them so attractive, and even looking at personality I'm obsessive about health and fitness, but most curvy women are not. For the second group, I always imagined that I'd just be able to get a 'standard' or 'traditional' relationship and progress to marriage and kids. So every time I find a woman like this, I worry about what kind of foundation the marriage would have, whether I'd be happy being in a relationship from meeting to marriage that I'm not 100% into and whether any woman who says that to me has that as a hard and fast rule or if it's just for me. So, experienced guys, should a man be settling if he wants to have a family or does it usually lead to ruin that's worse than staying single for life?