Never invest more than she does, go for sex 100% of times!

[JacobPalmer]

Well, personally I'd just text her again something like:

"Does 9 work for you? I should be finished my dinner by then"

But there are some more manipulative ones I've used before which almost always seem to work when she doesn't respond, which could work in this situation:

"If you're too nervous I'd completely understand" - she'll always say she isn't nervous here and will usually proceed with the date.

OR...and this one is usually saved as a last resort, but I've had it pull me back from the abyss sometimes.

"Listen, if you're not interested I can stop trying" - but usually add something else in here so it fits your specific scenario, like:

"9 should probably work as I'll be done my dinner by then. Would love to see you, but hey if you're not interested I can stop trying."

Definitely agree with FUck This though, try to do your place if you can. Or a quick drink out and then back to your place.

 

[razir110]

Well I wont text her, thats needy.. I already texted her and she didnt reply the last text, so why repeat myself?

Then I dont have logistics for home dinners.. I live with a bunch of flatmates.

 

[razir110]

Ill live it to her now, if she wants to see me shes got my number..

 

[razir110]

We ended up meeting and it was a super boring date, it seemed as I was with a different person. Since first moments she was so cold, the conversation was dying all the time, I rotated like 50 topics to keep it going lol by the end i was touching her but in general there was no chemistry.

At the end I still tried to invite her to mine she refused a bunch of times and called a taxi haha, she gave a super bland kiss before going in and left, so epic fail!

Anyway, her texting suggested something like that. I just dont get why woild you come a date with this vibe.