I'm going to preface that in terms of seduction, I'm at a beginner level. But what happened tonight, really changed the way I view the nightclub setting and the dynamics of interaction between guys and girls.
So here's my profile.
- 24 Australian Asian
- In Taiwan for holidays (originally from Taiwan, but work in Australia now)
- In terms of my fundamentals, I'd say I'm alright. I wouldn't rate highly of myself due to myself having strict standards. I have a few acne scars on my face, nothing too major. (I feel like this is just an insecurity of mine, cause people don't seem to mind it)
I've learned a lot in one night and wanted to share my experiences on this board. I've read GC for a really long time but always suffered AA. I've read a couple of articles and watched a couple of videos on GC YT (shout to @Hector Papi Castillo , really resonated with your personality). I've come to understand the importance of making it man to woman fast (direct game), moving woman around, eye contact and none-neediness. I believe these are the pillars of seductions, granted there are nuances; and it's hard to structure your interaction chunk by chunk. It's better to let it free flow whilst adding elements of these "strategies" if you will.
Wednesday night. December 11, 2019.
Bored and horny I wanted to do something fun tonight, I wanted to go on an adventure. Luckily people start clubbing on Wednesday in Taipei (IKR this is unheard of for me!), I decided to try my luck in one of the biggest nightclubs in the scene. I got tipped off by my friend who claimed that there will be no entry fee tonight so that got me excited. Turned out it wasn't the case, I ended up spending $30 for entry alone which kinda pissed me off. Got into the club early as I'm curious about what the venue is like. Basically, as soon as you walk into the club towards the right-hand side there's the bar. As you move towards the venue, there are many tables on the left and right side of the club with a footpath in the middle that guides you towards a massive pond of the dance floor.
For the first hour, I was suffering from anxiety. Thinking back, it was so stupid. I am literally rejecting myself before making any attempts in trying to socialize with random club goers. Luckily, I settled down drinking a bit and off I go. I managed to befriend the club promoters that were seated at one of the tables and got into their group quickly. From then onwards I was socializing with everyone that was around me, guys and girls. But I know one thing that I want tonight, and that is to FUCK. The girls in the table were pretty hot but since they're close with the promoters, I didn't want to ruin my reputation. Now that I've warmed up I decided to move away from this bubble of friends, and cold approach random girls around the clubs. Honestly, it's a lot easier than I thought, especially when I drop my negative self rejecting thoughts. A lot of the interactions were cordial and friendly but nothing too sexual. This is basically my dialogue for most of my interactions.
Me: Hey! Where are you from?
Girl: Responds
Me: Cool! I'm from Australia
Girl: No Way! You look so Taiwanese!
And pretty much escalated from there.
Now a lot of them were cordial and generally lose interest after 2-3 sentences. Now I know that I generally don't want to chase these girls, I want to have this abundance mentality. So I just approached literally every girl around me with a fun vibe, they were really welcoming and the interactions were better than expected. So this was definitely a confidence boost!
Now a couple of interactions stood out, and here is why I want your input.
At around 1am, I approached this 2 set asking for their nationality, also told them that it's my first time here. One of the girls (who apparently was 'new') showed no interested and walk into a group of her friends that was next to us. I proceeded to talk to her friend who was extremely receptive, we were hugging, hands touching, dancing together. She was giving me full attention (looking back I should've initiated a makeout sesh but pussied out). Throughout the interaction I was push pulling, making stealing organ jokes and she was obviously loving it. I also found out that she has a bf, but he's not here. I teased her saying that she's a bad girl and that his bf would've upset seeing me with her. She loved it and hugged me. But after a while, she left and danced with her friends. What should I have done here? It felt like I could've fucked her if I play my cards right, thinking back I should've asked logistics and isolated her and move her from the dance floor to the bar. But you live and you learn yea?
As soon as I left her, I was feeling hot. I was full of momentum, I didn't want this to die down. So I approached another group right next to me. Now, this shit is funny, because one of the girls said that her friend thought I was cute and I was interested.
(Maybe my fundamentals aren't as bad as I thought)
But she was so fucking shy I managed to have a small convo with her but she always fell back to her friends. But I realized this was due to her shy nature not her being uncomfortable with me. But like the last interaction, I wasn't really able to capitalize on it and she left to join her group of friends. Now I feel like if I was to chase her again, it'll be needy so I was like, I'll just find someone else.
Night has gotten pretty late so I was like, well time to bounce can't really expect much on my first day here.
(And due to myself being extremely inexperienced)
As I was about to leave I noticed another the cute girl waiting for the elevator, I opened her complementing her attire and she responded happily. Now ended up having a 10 min convo with her, with some push-pulls and organ jokes/ shy jokes ( holy shit, with the correct tonality and context, girls love it lmao ). She openly said that I was handsome but also mentioned that she needed to dry up with her friend. She ended up leaving me, now boys, in this case, should I went for the kiss as she openly showed interest in me? I managed to add her on Instagram and sent her a message saying " nice to meet you, you're a really open girl and I like it, are you single" 'from that cute Aussie boy. Not really expecting much but just shooting my shots.
Honestly though, tonight went better than expected. But ultimately I just want sex. Tonight definitely was a confidence boost, I hope in the future I would not rely on alcohol to muster up some courage.
Feedback appreciated.
Sky
So here's my profile.
- 24 Australian Asian
- In Taiwan for holidays (originally from Taiwan, but work in Australia now)
- In terms of my fundamentals, I'd say I'm alright. I wouldn't rate highly of myself due to myself having strict standards. I have a few acne scars on my face, nothing too major. (I feel like this is just an insecurity of mine, cause people don't seem to mind it)
I've learned a lot in one night and wanted to share my experiences on this board. I've read GC for a really long time but always suffered AA. I've read a couple of articles and watched a couple of videos on GC YT (shout to @Hector Papi Castillo , really resonated with your personality). I've come to understand the importance of making it man to woman fast (direct game), moving woman around, eye contact and none-neediness. I believe these are the pillars of seductions, granted there are nuances; and it's hard to structure your interaction chunk by chunk. It's better to let it free flow whilst adding elements of these "strategies" if you will.
Wednesday night. December 11, 2019.
Bored and horny I wanted to do something fun tonight, I wanted to go on an adventure. Luckily people start clubbing on Wednesday in Taipei (IKR this is unheard of for me!), I decided to try my luck in one of the biggest nightclubs in the scene. I got tipped off by my friend who claimed that there will be no entry fee tonight so that got me excited. Turned out it wasn't the case, I ended up spending $30 for entry alone which kinda pissed me off. Got into the club early as I'm curious about what the venue is like. Basically, as soon as you walk into the club towards the right-hand side there's the bar. As you move towards the venue, there are many tables on the left and right side of the club with a footpath in the middle that guides you towards a massive pond of the dance floor.
For the first hour, I was suffering from anxiety. Thinking back, it was so stupid. I am literally rejecting myself before making any attempts in trying to socialize with random club goers. Luckily, I settled down drinking a bit and off I go. I managed to befriend the club promoters that were seated at one of the tables and got into their group quickly. From then onwards I was socializing with everyone that was around me, guys and girls. But I know one thing that I want tonight, and that is to FUCK. The girls in the table were pretty hot but since they're close with the promoters, I didn't want to ruin my reputation. Now that I've warmed up I decided to move away from this bubble of friends, and cold approach random girls around the clubs. Honestly, it's a lot easier than I thought, especially when I drop my negative self rejecting thoughts. A lot of the interactions were cordial and friendly but nothing too sexual. This is basically my dialogue for most of my interactions.
Me: Hey! Where are you from?
Girl: Responds
Me: Cool! I'm from Australia
Girl: No Way! You look so Taiwanese!
And pretty much escalated from there.
Now a lot of them were cordial and generally lose interest after 2-3 sentences. Now I know that I generally don't want to chase these girls, I want to have this abundance mentality. So I just approached literally every girl around me with a fun vibe, they were really welcoming and the interactions were better than expected. So this was definitely a confidence boost!
Now a couple of interactions stood out, and here is why I want your input.
At around 1am, I approached this 2 set asking for their nationality, also told them that it's my first time here. One of the girls (who apparently was 'new') showed no interested and walk into a group of her friends that was next to us. I proceeded to talk to her friend who was extremely receptive, we were hugging, hands touching, dancing together. She was giving me full attention (looking back I should've initiated a makeout sesh but pussied out). Throughout the interaction I was push pulling, making stealing organ jokes and she was obviously loving it. I also found out that she has a bf, but he's not here. I teased her saying that she's a bad girl and that his bf would've upset seeing me with her. She loved it and hugged me. But after a while, she left and danced with her friends. What should I have done here? It felt like I could've fucked her if I play my cards right, thinking back I should've asked logistics and isolated her and move her from the dance floor to the bar. But you live and you learn yea?
As soon as I left her, I was feeling hot. I was full of momentum, I didn't want this to die down. So I approached another group right next to me. Now, this shit is funny, because one of the girls said that her friend thought I was cute and I was interested.
(Maybe my fundamentals aren't as bad as I thought)
But she was so fucking shy I managed to have a small convo with her but she always fell back to her friends. But I realized this was due to her shy nature not her being uncomfortable with me. But like the last interaction, I wasn't really able to capitalize on it and she left to join her group of friends. Now I feel like if I was to chase her again, it'll be needy so I was like, I'll just find someone else.
Night has gotten pretty late so I was like, well time to bounce can't really expect much on my first day here.
(And due to myself being extremely inexperienced)
As I was about to leave I noticed another the cute girl waiting for the elevator, I opened her complementing her attire and she responded happily. Now ended up having a 10 min convo with her, with some push-pulls and organ jokes/ shy jokes ( holy shit, with the correct tonality and context, girls love it lmao ). She openly said that I was handsome but also mentioned that she needed to dry up with her friend. She ended up leaving me, now boys, in this case, should I went for the kiss as she openly showed interest in me? I managed to add her on Instagram and sent her a message saying " nice to meet you, you're a really open girl and I like it, are you single" 'from that cute Aussie boy. Not really expecting much but just shooting my shots.
Honestly though, tonight went better than expected. But ultimately I just want sex. Tonight definitely was a confidence boost, I hope in the future I would not rely on alcohol to muster up some courage.
Feedback appreciated.
Sky
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I'll go with you! We can help your friend dry up" with some sexual suggestive tones.