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you will never truly understand game or reach a high level of game until you can fully let go of the outcome the majority of the time.
outcome dependence will creep back up. this can be very damaging during a relationship and will usually occur when she pulls back if you haven't trained yourself to be in your body enough to feel the way you're reacting.
nothing will make as much difference in moving you in the direction of outcome independence more so than cold approach pickup. this is why you should continue to do cold approach even when in a relationship, even if you're not going to sleep with the girls. if i'm not doing any approaching i am much more likely to become apathetic and lose motivation. relationships make a lot of men this way. the easy way around it is to keep approaching even if you're not gonna cheat. text other girls. she will be texting other guys.
swallow the fucking red pill, but don't cry about it. life isn't a disney movie. i don't know why as men we can't get over that. it's easy to accept everything in life is hard. but god damn woman should be easy. but if she is easy she's called names.
shit takes work. once the works done this shit is handled. if you can believe that. this shit gets easy. but you have to approach. tinder and fuck buddies is not enough. we all have to find that out again and again, when all we had to do was keep approaching. you don't even have to fuck these girls. you just have to talk to them.
outcome dependence will creep back up. this can be very damaging during a relationship and will usually occur when she pulls back if you haven't trained yourself to be in your body enough to feel the way you're reacting.
nothing will make as much difference in moving you in the direction of outcome independence more so than cold approach pickup. this is why you should continue to do cold approach even when in a relationship, even if you're not going to sleep with the girls. if i'm not doing any approaching i am much more likely to become apathetic and lose motivation. relationships make a lot of men this way. the easy way around it is to keep approaching even if you're not gonna cheat. text other girls. she will be texting other guys.
swallow the fucking red pill, but don't cry about it. life isn't a disney movie. i don't know why as men we can't get over that. it's easy to accept everything in life is hard. but god damn woman should be easy. but if she is easy she's called names.
shit takes work. once the works done this shit is handled. if you can believe that. this shit gets easy. but you have to approach. tinder and fuck buddies is not enough. we all have to find that out again and again, when all we had to do was keep approaching. you don't even have to fuck these girls. you just have to talk to them.
