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Not all Girls flakes because of no interest.

trashKENNUT

Cro-Magnon Man
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Hi Guys,

Thought i made a short post. Franco noted about flaking and he answered great.. I thought i post reasons as well why she flakes.

1)Nervous
2"I thought you might cancel it because you did not confirm" (Some girls think a lack of interest from you)
3)"You didnt let me know when to meet." Timing is important. This girls have jobs too!

Zac
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

Chase

Chieftan
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Zac-

Yep. All kinds of reasons:

  • It's the middle of exams and she's got one tomorrow and realizes she thought she could study and meet you but now can't do both
  • There was something a little awkward in your interaction and now she's built it up in her mind (and you haven't addressed it)
  • She wasn't sure how to interpret your last message, so decided to say nothing and wait for clarification, but you sent none
  • She started feeling bad about her boyfriend / husband / guy she's been on 2 dates with but hasn't slept with yet / guy she has a crush on and doesn't want to go out with you now

Etc. A million more like these. Figuring out what they are and which ones you can work around and which ones you can't is a never-ending battle (but you get better and better at avoiding the flake as you do it).

Chase
 

trashKENNUT

Cro-Magnon Man
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Chase,

Avoiding the flake is like walking onto a battlefield, prepared.

Process have to be tweak according to the environment. Can be a fun thing..

Zac
 
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